To be strictly fair, this is the constant conflict.
Vocal, bullying autogynephiles, are a completely different kettle of fish to androphillic men with gender dysphoria.
They are like chalk and cheese.
Depending who you know in real life, or where you visit on the Internet, your opinion of transwomen will be informed by which type you know or come across.
The way some autogynephiles talk really is quite dreadful. They can be quite open about their conflicting feelings over women, which seem to inhabit both envy/hate and lust at the same time.
It's chilling. We're all used to men lusting, but the envy part just feels very alien.
Then you get quite regular transwomen, who I might disagree with, but apart from that come across as completely normal.
There is always, always a distinction to be made.