The problem as I see it is that here we have two opposing factions that each see each other as the victim.
We (me) see biological women as the victim - that we have been the victim of male privilege & supremacy politically financially and physically for millennia and still are in many (most) countries
Trans identifiers see themselves as a sexual minority who are being devised access to spaces.
All the analogies I come up with side with the people who want to gain access to denied spaces. Rosa Parks, suffragettes etc
Is there a sufficient historical analogy that can show even though we want self identifying trans folk to keep out of women's geographical political economic ring fenced spaces - that this does not make us the oppressors.
I fall into the terf camp btw. But I have these arguments in my head