I wondered about the "safe space" at the Young Labour meeting: how was it managed? What would they do if a young woman went into it because she was being harassed by a man and wanted to get away from him like she used to be able to do with the ladies loos But then he also wanted to access the safe space, perhaps because someone saw his over-eager advances and threatened to punch him if he did it again.
Who wins? Who gets to stay, who goes?
Or if the same woman in my example above goes to the safe space because the harassment has been very triggering for her as she is a survivor of serious sexual assault and she just needs some time away from men to gather her thoughts. Then a TIM wants to access the space because someone said that he was really a man, and words are actual violence so he needed to get away.
Again, who gets to stay? The person who got there first? Who is in charge of asking someone to leave when there is a clash of needs?