Women are the ones who are best placed to know what the risks are and what we need.
It has been shown time and time again that the vast majority of men are broadly ignorant of the level of harassment / assault that we experience when we're just out and about, and that when told they have a quick reaction sequence >> oh my god why didn't you say anything >> why don't you report it if it's that bad >> it probably isn't that bad >> you're exaggerating >> tarring all men with the same brush >> stop it and go away and then NOTHING changes.
Men in society feel zero responsibility for the behaviour of other men in society, laws do not change, police attitudes do not change, people still turn a blind eye give the benefit of the doubt etc etc. Any excuse. Fundamentally I think lots of men only really care at all about women they know and care about, they seem to have difficulty raising any interested in "women as a group". Maybe they don't see women as a group? Which would explain why they are AOK with the definition being changed / removed. They are always very keen to say that women don't get on, that we're bitchy and horrible to each other, and when we do get together there are many put-downs "mothers meeting" "coven" "gossiping" etc etc
I think as much as men don't seem to understand or care about us (1 group to the other), there is some fairly important stuff that we are missing in why that is. So, I feel that women and girls generally do feel a connection, and this is borne out of shared experiences. Often negative ones - the harassment is a big one like a massive shared secret. And then the stuff about biology - contraception, pregnancy, childbirth, periods, menopause. Not all women will experience all but we pretty much all share some of it. We are sympathetic to each others stories around these things. Often because we have been there too. I mean women aren't perfect and many can be nasty but still we are a group, a disctinct group with our own issues caused by both society and biology which bind us together here and around the world. I can go to a different country and they will know the same stories. In some countries they will be worse, in others better but they will be the same. Poor behaviour of men. Periods. Pregnancy. Menopause. and so on.
What do men feel a connection over? As far as I can see it's football, and for many groups of young men, putting down women, sometimes just through watching gross porn together and laughing, sometimes by doing stuff in real life. Then there's stuff that they choose, hobbies. Do they feel a connection to all other men? I assume so but I don't know. Certainly the way they fail to see women as a group either means that they don't (so they don't get it), or that they simply don't see women as people.