As a non-biologist, I'd just like to say that this is a really interesting thread and I'm learning a lot.
I'd also like to ask some questions. Could somebody who has spent time observing chromosomes under a microscope say a bit about X and Y chromosomes? My (ultra-basic) understanding of chromosomes is that they are strings of genes, made out of DNA. Every human being who has developed normally has 23 pairs of chromosomes in every cell of the body except the gametes. One set of 23 comes from the mother in her egg, the other set of 23 comes from the father in his sperm and they marry up when the egg and sperm fuse at conception, hence why the gametes have to have 23 single chromosomes, not 23 pairs.
Now, is it right that all the chromosomes except the Y one are X-shaped, or are the other 22 different shapes? (Trivial detail but I realise now I don't know.)
And is it also right that the Y chromosome is the X chromosome with part of a leg missing? Hence diseases like haemophilia being more common in boys because if the mother passes down a defective gene on that leg of her X chromosome that's the only copy of that gene her son will get, there being no equivalent gene to inherit from his father. By contrast, her daughter would probably have got a good gene from her father's X chromosome.
And finally - X and Y chromosomes - once scientists had the technology to see chromosomes, presumably they collected thousands of images of them, published them, studied them and gradually came to a consensus based on those observations that about 50% of humans have two chromosomes shaped like an X and almost all the other 50% have one shaped like an X and one shaped like a Y. And guess what, humans with XX almost invariably have clearly female anatomy and XY are almost always clearly male.
It is presumably not the case that they wanted to find two sex chromosomes and went through looking at a wide range of shapes saying 'More like an X than a Y, into the X pile' and 'Well, it's more like a Z but let's say Y for this one'.
I'm not sure that's clear. It's just that reading Debbie's posts it seemed to me that she is suggesting that scientists have rigged the theory to support the conclusion they wanted to find, and I doubt that.