Thanks for posting this. I was idling away some time, thinking your post was a bit obscure 
but think there are some interesting parallels here to third-wave (?) feminism type stuff and generally the way society is now.
The bohemian man may have idealised women as muses and models but he was unhampered by bourgeois obligations to be faithful or to earn money, though rarely was he so unconventional as to undertake any housework or childcare.
I just feel like that describes modern men to some extent...