Oh god sorry sorry sorry. Realise this was hastily posted and now I'll be dripping in more info. In my head of course my thought process was perfectly clear from my post
but then I didn't sleep well tonight.
My relative is protrans in a manner that I no longer can 100 % agree with, since I find that centering trans issues means that (biological) womanhood is erased. These arguments you all know since they are often discussed on this board. When she retweeted this micro-SF story (I like the micro-SF twitter in general - the format is very clever IMO), I found it ironic since she often retweets stuff like "saying vaginas are female is cis-sexist and we need to be mindful of this" so I reacted. And I wanted to discuss this but being sleep-addled I failed to provide context.
The little twitter story is about (well, this is my interpretation anyway) androids now owning the term humans for themselves, while humans are "biologicals", which to me is analogous to the rising idea that "woman" cannot be used to refer to "natal" women, who instead must be referred to by a new term (cis), whereas transwomen can be permitted to use only the word woman to describe themselves. I do understand the story but I failed to explain my analogy. 
I find that I want to discuss these issues more and more because it seems like so many around me are happily accepting that words are changing meaning without thinking about what this means for women, and because I feel it's a step backwards from working towards a society in which gender roles are abolished. So I want to talk about it with my relative, who in some respects is a little prone to swallowing whatever seems like a just cause at the time. I feel there must be a way to be a true trans ally and advocate human rights and freedom from persecution without erasing women.
Sorry I was so unclear. I could ask for deletion if all the cool logical heads on the board are still reeling from my half-arsed input this morning?
