Everyday Feminism
'I went into a well-known pharmacy yesterday and nearly passed out. In a well-meaning gesture, the pharmacy have replaced the sign 'Female Hygiene' - yay, no more cisnormative biofem signs making me feel somehow less feminine because I don't happen to menstruate! But wait. The sign was replaced by a sign reading 'Hygiene Products'.
Woah.
Wait right there.
Like, woah.
Hit me with your cisprivilege again, why dontcha?
So what's my problem with this?
Why did I want to just sit down and cry when I went ahead and saw that sign?
Weellll, let me tell you.
- Ok, I don't know about you, but I am hygienic. I don't need a tampax, or the need to need a tampax. to confirm that I'm a pretty clean and tidy gal. The idea that only women who can menstruate can be hygienic is just a big fat smack in the tits to all of us women who happened to be randomly assigned as guys by dumb docs when we got ourselves born. So what, only ciswomen are hygienic? I don't think so (jeez, have you ever seen a period? BLUUURGH!)
- Ok, let's talk 'products'. Products is a word that just makes me go, OH TAKE YOUR GODDAM CISPRIVILEGE AND STICK IT IN YOUR BLEEDING FEMFANNY. 'Products'. Like we are all produced. (I'm gonna have to think about this one a bit more, but it sure as shit makes me mad as hell).
But gals - and I extend that to all the lovely non-judgmental cisgals, too - we gotta stand up about this. Every time one of these signs goes up, we are being told that we are somehow dirty. That we don't matter. That we aren't clean because we weren't assigned the right gender at birth.
And that hurts. That hurts all of us. And that, to me, is never what feminism should be about.