That looks like it will be an interesting read
On the subject of GoT, I'm watching it now and rape is mentioned a lot. However, I'm a few series in and rape is always a terrible thing - it's never justified because of a woman leading anyone on, it's frequently used as a weapon of war, and one character has refused to 'rape' his wife after they had an arranged marriage. I use inverted commas because rape in marriage has only recently been recognised so the idea that a man would respect his wife's bodily autonomy is pretty modern. Men have also been threatened with rape.
Naked women are used decoratively throughout, in a way that men are not. But rape isn't really used as entertainment in my opinion. Happy to have people disagree, though - I'd have to think about it more deeply!