There have been quite a few people here I wanted to respond to so apologies for the length of this post!
PalmerViolet, do you have any statistical evidence to back up your assertion that Rosalie's experience is more common than the experiences I (and many other indoor sex workers like me) have?
In Rosalie's case, the problem isn't sex work, the problem is child abuse. We already have laws in place for that which should have protected her, and perhaps we should look into enforcing those laws with a little more effort than we do currently rather than picking on the 'easier' targets like two consenting adults exchanging sexual favours for cash.
Drug problems, assault, rape, child abuse, abuse of the disabled, all have laws already in place which should be protecting the vulnerable in our society.
In Rosalie's blog she says "By you supporting decriminalisation you support the men who have raped me since I was 14 years old."
Supporting decriminalisation within the sex industry does not equate to supporting rape or child abuse.
Sillage - You say "The Nordic model has been the most successful legal avenue to reducing men's sense of entitlement to sex the world has seen so far."
Have you looked up Sweden's rape statistics in the last couple of decades? I'd say they still have a pretty big problem with male sexual entitlement.
Stop listening to Harriet Harman, she has a habit of telling porkies and really doesn't care about the safety of sex workers at all.
Greentomatojam - I'm glad you asked about health and safety. My health is extremely important to me, and my livelihood depends on it, so of course I use condoms and get myself tested regularly (which is more than the porn industry is willing to do but that's another gripe for another thread...)
I also have a partner and I wouldn't risk his sexual health either by putting my own at risk.
Do I believe this is a common attitude in the sex industry?
I honestly have no idea what other consenting adults chose to do with their own bodies and sexual health. My concern is my own health.
But I suspect most other sex workers would be careful too - our livelihood depends on us being in good health.
summerfloweragain - Your post was thought provoking. Yes, there are a lot of people out there who are failed by other social attitudes and provisions.
Why do men seek emotional comfort through paid-for sex and women don't? I don't know. But, in my experience, I find many men to have their self-worth tied up in their sexuality to a huge degree. The same way many women have their self-worth tied up in appearing sexually available to men.
Though I could just be talking bollocks there
I'm really not academically inclined enough to unpick the issue with any great success!