So the phrase "forced to join the the rest of the developed world in the 21st century over this" is bad... right.
I'm sorry that you extrapolated from that that I meant that either NI or Ireland wasn't part of the 21st century/developed world in everything, because it's fairly obvious that I didn't. I tend to assume that Irish women from both sides of the border are intelligent enough to realise that the words people write are the words they mean.
And thanks for the geography lesson. I so wasn't aware that Ulster and NI aren't the same, despite them being used interchangeably in news media all over the world for the last god knows how long. I'll name the counties in future, just to clarify things.
Anyway, to rewrite my OP so that everyone is happy...
Looks like Antrim, Armagh, Down, Fermanagh, Londonderry and Tyrone will be forced to join the rest of the developed world in the 21st century over this one issue, because I don't believe that the folks in Ireland are either stupid or backward at last!