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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Healthy living support thread for feminists

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SeraOfeliaFalfurrias · 16/08/2015 18:11

In response to a few discussions we've had down the pub - there are some of us who are striving for better health through better diets and more exercise, but who struggle among the usual support groups where it's all about looking better rather than good health. And it certainly can be tricky as a feminist, walking that fine line between not conforming to beauty ideals through dieting and making sure you actually look after your body through a healthy lifestyle.

So here is a support thread for those of us who are trying to eat better and get more exercise.

Me, I could do with losing a bit over 2 stone to get back to a healthy weight. I had an ankle injury after running a marathon about 3 years back, and between not being able to exercise and the stress of my PhD (I'm a stress binge eater) I gained 3 stone and lost all my hard-earned fitness. I'm finally getting back on track, I've lost nearly a stone and am hitting the exercise hard again. The hardest bit has been getting back into running - while my ankle is better, my joints are really feeling the extra weight I'm carrying. It's also hard to do karate when your wobble gets in the way of you doing a good kick and you get out of breath when sparring. So I need to lose weight in order to enjoy my sports hobbies again. I'm taking it slowly, doing Slimming World but not religiously - I'm not in a hurry to lost the weight, but I also need to watch that I don't take it so slowly that it never happens!

Yesterday I ran 8km, which is really encouraging as I was still going strong at the end. Just a couple of months ago I was run/walking 5km and would have welcomed death at the end! So I feel like some kind of switch has been flipped and my body now "remembers" how to run. The down side is that both ankles are aching and stiff today.

My diet has been rather rubbish the last couple of weeks, including a few binges, and I put some pounds back on, but I'm in that good place mentally now and hopefully ready to focus on getting my body healthy again. I loved being lean and fit and athletic, and I'm not getting any younger (thoroughly middle-aged), so I feel like the window of opportunity for getting myself in a sustained state of good health without drastic measures being required is closing!

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feckityfeck · 24/09/2015 15:24

Glad you're feeling better Yonic. I'm almost there. I've fallen off the wagon in a major way with sugary crap, biscuits mostly. I'm going to need help to go cold turkey again. Particularly because it's dd2's party this weekend and there is going to be sugary crap all over the place.

Thefitfatty · 24/09/2015 18:52

Dear lord my house is a plague ward. All the kids and I have done for the last two days is sleep. DH who is impervious to sickness is waiting on us hand and foot while we watch tv and sleep in mommy and daddy's bedroom. There was a reason I married DH and I am reminded of it today

YonicScrewdriver · 24/09/2015 22:40

Aww!

Many cocktails and a sausage roll tonight. Not so healthy! But fun.

feckityfeck · 26/09/2015 10:09

I am mantra-ing today:

"You are not hungry. You are bored or thirsty."

"Don't eat that biscuit. If you eat that one you'll want another and before you know it you'll have eaten five and will feel rubbish from the sugar rush and subsequent crash. Don't do it."

Although I'm not sure that second one is catchy enough to qualify as a mantra Grin.

I hope you're feeling better FF. Cocktails and sausage rolls sound much fun Yonic :)

Trills · 27/09/2015 18:25

"You are not hungry. You are bored or thirsty."

So say we all.

feckityfeck · 27/09/2015 21:30

Grin I've been thinking it was time for a BSG rewatch.

Thefitfatty · 28/09/2015 06:41

What I thought was the flu was a really bad infection in my larnyx. So I'm on antibiotics and been told not to talk for 3 days. HA! Try that with a 3.8 year old and a 2 year old. All I've heard for the last 2 days is "Mummy, talk Mummy, why won't you talk Mummy! Mummy talk to me!"

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