Buffy it's clear that education is needed then, you won't get near that body type at all without the correct nutrition, like they say abs are are crafted the kitchen not the gym. Laxitives, poor diet and starvation mode are detrimental to muscle gain and repair.
You have to eat a clean diet, no refined sugars nothing processed, I mean my diet is "boring" but it's clean, veg, meat, fruit, home made vinegrettes and sauces so I can monitor the sugar content. It's protein heavy and carb light using slow release carbs. It's as boring as they come but it aids my training and thus my image. I've still got a long way to go 8 months post partum to get anywhere near peak form but it's a work in progress.
I think if we actually sent nutritionalists to schools and showed children what a healthy diet is, and how certain body "types" are are and the hard work and dedication that goes in to them, maybe then we can get closer to grabbing the bull by its horns on this countries poor body image and poor doetry habbits.