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Rape culture in action. Massive Trigger Warning

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scallopsrgreat · 21/11/2014 22:19

Warning: There is a brutal rape described in the opening paragraphs. So please self-care.

The article is from RollingStone and is about the systematic erasure and cover-up of womens rape and sexual assault experiences at the University of Virginia. It is quite long but also very detailed.

From 'friends' to officials these women are encouraged to forget. They are paralysed by lack of information, informed choices and support even from those who are seemingly trying to help.

The article really doesn't pull any punches and describes really well how women's experiences are minimised. It also shows how rapists aren't monsters. They live and function (sometimes even heroically) in the community. It shows how they do plan their rapes (sometimes quite chillingly). How they feel entitled to rape these women and how they don't see it as a big deal. They don't expect to get caught. They may not even see it as rape or simply just don't care.

Just in case anyone thinks women aren't oppressed. Or feminism has gone too far. Or rape culture doesn't exist.

It's so frightening.

I also think it should be highlighted and the University of Virginia named. Because they have gone to great lengths to silence the voices of these women over decades.

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YonicSleighdriver · 23/12/2014 21:00

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Aqui1a · 23/12/2014 21:01

You're hilarious, you. I hope they're paying you to be the Mumsnet jester.

YonicSleighdriver · 23/12/2014 21:02

Nope Sad

Maybe I should get into trolling? Does that pay well?

Aqui1a · 23/12/2014 21:03

Do you always accuse those with a differing opinion of being a troll? If you do, I bet the other feminists automatically believe you!

YonicSleighdriver · 23/12/2014 21:33

No, but when a new poster comes onto FWR threads, makes some "haha" remarks on body hair and makeup threads then engages in sustained rape apologism, well...

BOOM!

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Aqui2a · 23/12/2014 22:17

hahaha Buffy, like I said.. if I want to create more accounts, I can. It's eeeaaaasy.

I'm getting banned because I have a different opinion to you annoying, illogical, irrational fascists! I'm happy with that, I'll consider it more proof that you can't handle the truth.

It's just a relief that most women aren't feminists like yourselves.

YonicSleighdriver · 23/12/2014 22:19

What was it you were saying about winning the argument if the other side were resorting to personal attacks?

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Aqui2a · 23/12/2014 22:21

Just for the record, I want women to have the same rights as men. I don't want to be confused with those who have a different, more unfair agenda. But some of the stuff you feminists come out with... it's laughable. It's clear you have a deep-seated disliking of men, which comes out in many different ways.

YonicSleighdriver · 23/12/2014 22:22

Yes, wrapped my last present today, hooray! Can't wait now, still doing some financial admin now cos I want to be all clear from tomorrow!

How about you?

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YonicSleighdriver · 23/12/2014 22:25

Mmm, truffles. I have fresh cream too, used it in my scrambled eggs tonight (visiting relatives for Xmas so am in "fridge using up" mode)

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YonicSleighdriver · 23/12/2014 22:29

Ah, must take our smoked salmon with us, good reminder!

RufusTheReindeer · 23/12/2014 22:34

Smoked salmon and scrambled eggs!!!

When's breakfast??? I'll be there!,

Actually going to a local cafe tomorrow for a full English...or egg and chips in my case!!

Well done both of you for "wrapping" the thread up!!

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