Reference please, Dadwashere - your interpretation is contrary to my understanding of the situation (e.g. the Aspect experiment). If by "Pilot Wave' you mean Bohm theory then the point about that is that the pilot fields are explicitly non-local, which is fine till you try to produce an extension to relativistic physics. AFAIK, no-one's produced a relativistic extension of Bohm. Though there were some recent experiments reported in Science (I think - may have been Nature) to the effect that one could set up a beam-splitting experiment such that the neutron "went one way" and all its properties "went the other way" - which means that one of the philosophical objections to Bohm theory (that you end up loading all the properties of "things" onto the pilot field rather than the particles themselves) seems to apply to mainstream quantum theory too.
Caillin - it's infuriating isn't it? And I suspect done quite deliberately in some instances. "Hey, let me pick this particular illustration which won't push my buttons so I can pretend it's all an academic game, but will push yours so I can dismiss you as 'over emotional' for pointing out that it's not just an academic game."
If I were to try to explain the flaw in Dawkins' absurd pronouncement (I don't want to dignify it with the term "argument") to a male lurker (or indeed a female lurker who was of the "well she was asking for it" school of thought) who hadn't got the distinction, I'd proceed thus. (Apologies and trigger warning to some of our nicer male posters - this will, I'm afraid, discuss a situation very similar to one I think one of you has actually been in. The difference, I hope, between me and Dawkins is that at least I can see that the situation is utterly horrific.)
Take the knife out of the argument for the time being. (Since Dawkins insists on it being relevant, I will put it back into the story later, but by then I think you'll be able to see it's irrelevant). Two scenarios, both start the same way: you (a man in this instance) are out socialising with friends, some of whom you know well, others who probably count as acquaintances, and you realise you've missed the last train home. In one scenario, you walk home. Half way, you're caught short, nip down an alley for a pee, and get forced to the ground and anally raped by a man (we will assume, for the sake of argument, bigger and stronger). In the other scenario, one of the "acquaintances" in your social circle offers to let you sleep on the sofa at his place. You wake to find him anally raping you (again, assuming him to be bigger and stronger). I hope it would be clear to anyone of either sex that both scenarios are rape, and both would be extremely traumatic - it makes no sense to say the first is worse because you'd vaguely known the perpetrator of the second attack before hand.
Now add the knife back in. Arguably the overall situation is worse because now in addition to the rape itself (which is utterly traumatic either way round) you now fear for your life as well. But it's not the rape that's got worse - that was always every bit as bad as a rape could be, because that's the nature of rape - it's the situation as a whole that's worse. And that's reflected in English law (as I understand it) - the perpetrator, assuming they were caught, charged and brought to trial - would be charged with rape and assault/GBH/wounding with intent/whatever the appropriate charge was.