Does feminism mean we have to get rid of sexist benefits?

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Here some women are
Reluctant to let go of
The privileges

That come along with
Benevolent sexism.
Will this ever change?

Is it sexist to
Expect unequal treatment
In this day and age?

I earn more than my bloke
I pay more bills 'cos I'm not a stoke
If I'm on mat leave some day
He'll have a bigger chunk to pay
He won't mind - he's a grafter
And we'll live happily ever after.

(Oh, by the way - lest you wonder
And my future plans are making you chunder
When I go skipping back to work
He'll mind the kids- he's not a jerk).

I was on a first date
And I offered to pay
He turned up his nose
and said "oh you're one of those"
Seems I can't win either way!

You can so win, Kase.
You get to spot a nobber
On the first date -- yay!

yeah you spotted a nobber and you didn't have to pay for the privilege to do so