I've started a thread in AIBU, just to give it a wider audience, but it's probably most relevant to FWR [[http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1799855-AIBU-in-thinking-that-anyone-who-had-ever-actually-given-birth-would-never-let-an-11-year-old-make-the-decision-to-give-birth?msgid=40212301]]