blames me for having it like i did it to my self at this critical time do you think i need to hear any kind of these , yes it b

[almaadam2013]

I am in labor almost and my husband just counted my scars in my body and blames me for having it like i did it to my self at this critical time do you think i need to hear any kind of talk? what do i do since i have no body else to support me in the labor or in UK at all?

i can take care of my self but right now i have to stay with him.

I'm not sure I understand. Do you mean you have been self-harming?

Perhaps you could repost in the relationships subforum for relationship-based advice? www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships

You don't ever "have" to stay with him.

You're not clear on what the problem is, but if you are in crisis, The Samaritans can help you if you give them a call. They're not just there for people who are suicidal (that was their original brief, but they've branched out massively since then), they're there for people who are feeling unhappy, unsure, just need a listening ear to get their thoughts sorted.

And SingingSilver's idea of posting on the more general relationships board is also a good one.

Good luck OP, I hope you find the help you need.

Alma, do you mean stretch marks?

Is your H normally critical of you?