I am possibly being too sensitive here because I DO need to lose weight but I am getting a bit hacked off with other women seeing me do some kind of exercise or sport and asking me how the weight loss is going or saying "I know you are trying to lose weight". DH goes running and plays sport and nobody ever asks him this, even though he has about the same amount to lose as me. Why can I not just exercise because I enjoy it and play sport for the sake of playing sport? This is not just a recent thing. I have always tried to be quite active so it is not like I am on a sudden health kick.
And another thing, I can't bloody eat anything without being told I will "undo all my hard work". It's not hard work, it's something I like doing.
My friend who is rake thin does a lot of sport too and is constantly being told she doesn't need to because she is thin. Can women just do something because they enjoy it, and not because they are on a never ending journey towards physical "perfection"?