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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Cherry healey programme on bbc3. Body hair

25 replies

ethelb · 04/07/2012 21:35

HHonestly is anyone really that bothered. She spends up to two hours a week remOving body hair!

I feel quite slovenly now....

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grimbletart · 04/07/2012 21:58

2 hours? Flaming Norah - what is she, a werewolf?

ethelb · 04/07/2012 22:22

She had slightly hairy arms. Honestly though. I shave my pits and my legs though left them alone for ten days as I have been busy. I was nit that bothered. I had good sex Dp when pushed jokes about shaving my
Minge but it really is a joke.
Am I just slovenly?

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EclecticShock · 04/07/2012 22:35

2 hours a week seems excessive. I do it when I have time, I like having smooth legs and armpits but equally I won't die if I forget and neither will dp.

AnyFucker · 04/07/2012 22:38

Is this a real person ?

Is she mentally ill ? Does she have a psychiatric disorder ? Body dysmorphism ? OCD ?

There is no other explanation for such excess

GoodButNotOutstanding · 04/07/2012 22:40

I don't think I spend 2 hours a year removing body hair! Shock I don't shave my legs, or do anything with my bikini line, I only shave my pits. So maybe 2 mins a week in total (sometimes less if I cba to do it), so yes about 2 hours a year, I can't imagine how much body hair you would have to be removing in order to spend 2 hours a week on it.

ethelb · 04/07/2012 22:51

she gave it up for three months for the programme. Did no-one else see it?

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AnyFucker · 04/07/2012 22:52

no, but I once stopped plucking my single nipple hair for the cause

when it started poking me in the eye I had to do something

EclecticShock · 04/07/2012 22:55

:) @ anyfucker.

I saw it and thought it was a little silly. Most women have more pressing concerns, I would think. Although, of electrolysis was cheaper and quicker, I would do it. Saves another thing to think about.

Aboutlastnight · 04/07/2012 22:55

I saw it. It has never occurred to me to worry about arm hair. She has too much time on her hands, and should get a proper job or do done voluntary work or something.

< adjusts bosom>

PooPooInMyToes · 04/07/2012 22:56

I saw it!

I thought the bloke saying that hairy vaginas are disgusting and sweaty was a moron.

EclecticShock · 04/07/2012 22:56

I think it can be a cultural thing. I wasn't worried about my arm hair and am not now, but my sister who is Indian was disgusted. Society again.

EclecticShock · 04/07/2012 22:57

Half sister.

AnyFucker · 04/07/2012 22:58

poo, many women think that hairy vaginas are sweaty and disgusting

AnyFucker · 04/07/2012 22:59

although, it's kind of stupid, because there is no hair in a vagina

ethelb · 04/07/2012 22:59

ok so i am not a slovenly gorilla. thanks v much Grin

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PooPooInMyToes · 05/07/2012 09:56

poo, many women think that hairy vaginas are sweaty and disgusting

A lot of men like it because that's what they see in porn and so it has become the norm. So i wonder if this has in part influenced some women's thinking about it?

Cherry said in the program that she was happy with her bush until a boyfriend when she was young commented on it and suggested she try a new smaller shape. Since then she has kept it trimmer i think (not that I've seen it, just from what she said). She also had a bloke comment on her hairy arms when she was young and impressionable and has waxed them ever since!

If trim bushes or completely waxed ones have become normal to men then they are going to comment on anything different and what young girl wants to be seen as different or a freak.

I hate to think that we as women do things regarding our appearance just because men like it or expect it but that's what the program was about. Men were so freaked out by women with hair!

grimbletart · 05/07/2012 12:06

Where Cherry has gone wrong is to care what some bloke said. If they don't like hairy arms or a hairy bush then can always go and find someone else. After all, who wants to have sex with a shallow pea-brain? Or of course she could suggest that hairy balls don't turn her on much either and suggests she trims him into a nicer shape and while she is at it what about trimming him all over so she doesn't end up with his pubic hairs in her teeth.

Come on woman for Gawd's sake. Contrary to the views of men like that you are not on earth to be a Barbi doll. [anger]

SardineQueen · 05/07/2012 12:19

2 hours a week is about 15 mins a day.
I bet there are plenty of women who do that.
Equally women who spend 2 hours a week on their nails, or 4 hours a week on their hair, or whatever.
I can't be arsed personally, just do stuff when I feel like it.
makes me sad that so many women spend so much time, money, effort and often pain because they feel they have to. Awful.

How did the hair removal woman feel when she stopped doing it for a while?

rosabud · 05/07/2012 13:38

Who is Cherry Healey?

YoYoYoItsTillyMinto · 05/07/2012 16:29

SQ - she liked having the extra time everyday and a shower just took 2 mins.

LaFataTurchina · 05/07/2012 22:52

Am just watching it now.

I found the bit with Delphine really sad :(

SardineQueen · 06/07/2012 09:24

When the experiment ended, did she return to her old regime, or tone it down a bit, or a lot?

It sounds like an interesting prog.

Cuddler · 08/07/2012 12:05

I can see how you would spend 2 hours a week if you wanted to be smooth constantly,if you shaved your legs,armpits and bits every day or even every other day it would probably take that long?It just depends on how quick it grows back.

nethunsreject · 08/07/2012 12:08

I wish they'd stop giving that bloody woman screen time.

She's the new Dawn Porter, purveyor of crappy, vaccuous 'journey' BBC3 programmes.

Empusa · 09/07/2012 01:49

I quite like Cherry Healey, but she obviously has some real body issues. On the previous episode she was talking to a girl who was utterly dependant on diet pills, and they were both talking about how they needed to lose weight, when they were both tiny.

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