I was going to put this in AIBU but it's about more than that.
I have just received another fancy dress related hen night invitation.
Apparently we are all to go out hilariously dressed as french maids
I am trying to give a thought out response to the friend.
Do I
A) Just not go and leave it
B) Not go and explain why
C) Go and dress up
D) Go and not dress up and explain why
It's meant to be about her I know that and what she wants...but why is it seen as hilarious / sexy / empowering to go out dressed like this? I have three small DC's FFS. I don't want to wander round the town centre in suspenders and a short dress not least to consider the underlying connotations and inferences to it all.
Any ideas?
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Hen nights and costumes. Just why?
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peppapighastakenovermylife · 11/08/2011 09:58
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