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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Are you with the offended ones?

80 replies

bronze · 31/03/2011 12:20

nice baps

A petition and letter of complaint has been handed to owner John O'Toole, decrying his bakery's choice of title: Nice Baps.

Am I uptight and odd to be uncomfortable with this. My problem is I'm not very good expressing myself but...
it feels like theyre saying its ok to make womens breasts something you can comment on because it's ok it's only a joke

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David51 · 31/03/2011 13:40

If someone feels offended they have a right to complain. It may be 'only a joke' but the joke's on you isn't it? Every time you walk past the shop you get a little reminder of the kind of attitude you're supposed to put up with.

By the way I dfind the shopkeeper's name - John O' Toole - strangely appropriate...

sethstarkaddersmackerel · 31/03/2011 13:48

this would piss me off.
If I lived in the town I wouldn't shop there.

Gooseberrybushes · 31/03/2011 13:52

Nice baps is pathetic. I'm offended by the level of humour. Twat.

bronze · 31/03/2011 13:53

A friend said 'Its harmless fun IMO!' and I haven't replied yet as I can't put together how I feel coherently.

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Gooseberrybushes · 31/03/2011 13:57

Can't see a butcher selling "large cocks" going down a storm. Nope you are right. Just tell her, if it was iced buns being marketed with "look at all the creamy white stuff on the top of our long dogs" it wouldn't be that funny.

JoeyCroc · 31/03/2011 14:00

We have a sandwich place near us called Bulging Baps. It doesn't bother me I think it's quite funny. At least the name is rememberable.

Unrulysun · 31/03/2011 17:17

I think you may mean memorable.

Biscuit
OldLadyKnowsNothing · 31/03/2011 17:31

Hmm, surely the word "bap" meant "bread roll" before it became slang for breasts?

Unrulysun · 31/03/2011 17:35

well language changes doesn't it? Gay no longer means gay and nice no longer means nice. It's clearly a joke about breasts.

upahill · 31/03/2011 17:35

I have no problem with this.
........and if a butcher did call something large cocks I wouldn't have a problem with that either.

There is a layby butie shop near Settle called Busty Baps. Whe I passed it in the kinbus with colleagues from work the comment from the other female staff was ' I can guess where you guys are your getting lunch from!

AliceWorld · 31/03/2011 17:36

Which is a great example of where the problem lies.

vaginiasmonalogue · 31/03/2011 17:39

I can't believe people are getting so uptight about a harmless play on words!!

Hullygully · 31/03/2011 17:42

My butcher's is called Big Swinging Duck. And he hangs them from a pole that vibrates in the window so they do swing.

OTheHugeManatee · 31/03/2011 17:42

I'm not offended by this. It's on a part with all those hairdressers with terrible names, that's all.

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 31/03/2011 17:54

I know "gay" no longer means "happy and carefree", but what does "nice" mean these days, if not, well, "nice", Unrulysun? [auld gimmer emoticon]

Unrulysun · 31/03/2011 20:24

I believe it used to mean precise: as in a 'nice' distinction. Innit?

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 31/03/2011 20:30

Lots of meanings for "nice"; so what does it mean these days? (Sorry, I'm not trying to be obtuse, but I live in rural Scotland and language develops differently here than in eg London.)

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 31/03/2011 20:32

Ah, Ok, think I'm getting it...

Unrulysun · 31/03/2011 20:33

Blandly inoffensively pleasant? 'That's a nice lamp, it will work well with my cream curtains'.

Unrulysun · 31/03/2011 20:35

My I-phone won't open some links - that being one of them.

hormonesnomore · 31/03/2011 20:35

Good grief! I though nice meant, well, just nice.

And biscuits of course.

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 31/03/2011 20:38

Sorry, Unrulysun, I think I "got" the modern parlance from the urbandictionary, the second of my links.

Apologies for the hijack. Blush

StewieGriffinsMom · 31/03/2011 21:01

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Gooseberrybushes · 31/03/2011 21:35

yes i think it's moronic too

upahill · 31/03/2011 23:56

I refuse to get upset at the equivalent of the old saucy postcard humour.
I don't want to spend my day going round with a cat's arse face finding ways to be offended.
It's just a play onslang words that women often use themselves to describe their breasts that just happens to be a style of bread roll.(read other threads and you will know there are all sorts of slang words for them)

I think women have got bigger fish to fry than be pissed off over this.