Well yes, that's the argument isn't it. WHy would you pay?
Which brings us back to the question of objectifying.
When you contact a real, live person, communicate with them, you are not objectifying them or men in general.
If a man buys porn or a prostitute, say, you are objectifying women. Even men who can 'get' women for free sometimes buy women. That is because they've objectified them i.e turned them into a commodity.
I wanted to mentions something about Japan. Here we have hostess bars (young girls serving men sake, and usually havint to have a 'patron' who she will sleep with). BUT they also have host bars, which are basically for rich housewives and are exactly the same thing. There has been loads of fascinating documentaries on this and even a dramas on it (showing the power hierarchies between the hosts).
But I personally just did not 'get' the idea of paying someone loads of cash to sleep with you. Where's the pleasure in that? 
BUt men do it all the friggin time . It just seems so...sad. And watching porn, someone you don't know from Adam, for me is quite unsatisfying too.
That's very different to what you do, snowflake, when you communicate with real men.
So as wukter said, the question here is: DO women want to objectify men the way men objectify women?
I think going by the Japanese example, the answer is: "sometimes, but not to the same extent"