Lie back and think of England

[dignified]

I read this today on a thread where a woman was being sulked at by her husband about sex, along with the usual responses of poor him hes frustrated ect.

I honestly despair.

Hmm, I haven't read the original thread and was responding purely to the original post by dignified.

Malificence In terms of 'leaking' information, I don't think people do it intentionally. Often people do recall things as they talk though a problem they're having - which is different to changing your story to get the responses you want.

Now I can only talk about my own experience but with my XP it was certainly part of a wider spectrum of abusive behaviours which I think was designed to control and intimidate.

Without being TMI about it, I have always had a healthy sex drive and with XP would frequently initiate sex - this was before things deteriorated.

Posted too soon..what I meant to say was, I would initiate sex and he would often (but not always) turn me down.