And it’s not just mealtimes, it’s that they live in the nursery in general. Joey says something mad at some point when the triplets are three or so, about how they are going to be ‘kept to quarters’ (ie. live in the nursery)until they learn not to repeat things.
I mean, obviously context matters, and Joey would have been born shortly before WW1, but we keep being told Joey is an eternal schoolgirl who is bit of a revolutionary in her attuned, ‘chummy’ parenting, but it seems like very standard Edwardian parenting, and some deeply trad patriarchal notions about the role of the father in instilling discipline.
The start of Joey and Co in Tyrol is chilling — Mike does something risky, but entirely normal for a child of his age, and Joey faints for two hours, and Len’s immediate response is to send Mike and the younger children away to cosset Joey, and Madge decides Mike needs to be kept away from his own father for a minimum of three weeks, for fear of his rage! He’s been sent to Coventry, eating his meals in the nursery with the younger children, no one talking to him, and Jack, apparently, is afraid to ‘thrash’ Mike because he’s so angry.
In fact the original plan was for Mike to be punished by being kept away from his family for his entire school holidays and going back to school from the Russells’!