Years ago (probably 15-20) I remember flicking through a book which I think was an autobiography. I can't remember the exact setting but I think it was India or a close neighbour. The author was talking about how as a child she once ate something her brother wanted (an apple?) and her punishment was that her brother got to control everything she ate after that, and he did not allow her much at all. That is literally all I can remember so I know this is a long shot, but does anyone know which book this may be?