Have been Googling to no avail - can't remember the title or author of a book...
It's about a woman married to the headacher of a public boys' school. The woman is the 'perfect wife' but being abused - eventually fights back and kills him. Sent to prison, disowned by children. Key scene which keeps playing in my head is when a friend believes the abuse she endured as he watched her at a dinner party being pinched in a mirror.
Any ideas? It's doing my head in!