i need to lose 4 stone. i know i have to do this but i am having real trouble motivating myself and getting in the right frame of mind. what worked for you? do i do WW, SW, online something or other, rosemary conley, cabbage soup, atkins, egg and beetroot (i remember my mother trying that one!!!!???!) or my own, how do i get my sorry ass motivated?? all tips, tales of success etc etc gratefully received!!