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How can I be the same weight and looks so different?

19 replies

Oofs · 02/07/2023 15:58

I lost a lot of weight the last 2 years.

Dec 22 the green leggings pic was taken at 11st.

I gained around 20lbs after but have lost it again.

I'm so confused because when I hit 11stone in Dec I felt so good. All my clothes fit me. I felt slim (I was previously nearly 18 stone)

But I've taken the 2nd photo today, again at 11 stone.

I feel huge still and nothing fits that fit me in December. I'm so confused.

I know they're from different angles but I you can still see the difference?

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Oofs · 02/07/2023 16:10

I'm annoyed as I've worked really hard to lose that 20lbs again for holiday and still feel huge!

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Diggersandunicorns · 02/07/2023 16:15

Were you exercising the first time you lost it and this time did it just by dieting?

Sotiredmjmmy · 02/07/2023 16:17

That would be my guess too, different mix of exercise so different effect on shape - I’ve got same issues from being at those weight ranges too, I don’t look anything like the same when I drop back down now

Quitelikeit · 02/07/2023 16:20

What is your height?

could you be due on your period?

XiCi · 02/07/2023 16:21

There looks a lot of bloating on the 2nd pic. So maybe just need to sort that out? Are you eating the same foods? Do you have IBS?

Quitelikeit · 02/07/2023 16:22

your pic proves clothes matter

your leggings remind me of a really flimsy pair I have from Next they just gather my bulge together eurghhh so unflattering (on me that is)

ABugWife · 02/07/2023 16:24

First pic you were carrying more muscle maybe?

Oofs · 02/07/2023 16:32

No difference in the way I lost the weight and no exercise each time either. I've never been good with exercise.

It's definitely not just the clothes. My stomach is so much bigger.

I had trousers that were a bit baggy in Dec that I can hardly do up now!

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HairyKitty · 02/07/2023 16:42

Really, I would have guessed you were exercising in green pic too. For what it’s worth I weigh a lot less than you and look much bigger than green trouser pic.

I think you should put the whole green outfit on again and take the same snap then compare them

Quitelikeit · 02/07/2023 17:10

Great idea by kitty!

you didn’t tell us your height

Workawayxx · 02/07/2023 17:13

How old are you? Is it peri menopausal /menopausal weight redistribution causing more weight on your tummy and you’re slimmer elsewhere?

YukoandHiro · 02/07/2023 17:14

Age. How long ago was the first pic?

Valour · 02/07/2023 17:15

Bread makes this difference to me, sadly. Toast in the morning makes me look four months pregnant.

XiCi · 02/07/2023 17:15

YukoandHiro · 02/07/2023 17:14

Age. How long ago was the first pic?

The OP said it was only taken in December

Oofs · 02/07/2023 17:16

YukoandHiro · 02/07/2023 17:14

Age. How long ago was the first pic?

7 months ago.

I'm 38

5ft5.

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Oofs · 02/07/2023 17:17

HairyKitty · 02/07/2023 16:42

Really, I would have guessed you were exercising in green pic too. For what it’s worth I weigh a lot less than you and look much bigger than green trouser pic.

I think you should put the whole green outfit on again and take the same snap then compare them

I'll try and find the leggings, I'm in the middle of moving and may have packed them away but I will look and try to recreate later!

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Mumof1andacat · 02/07/2023 17:27

Hormones, age, time of day and what you're eating all plays in to it

FrillyGoatFluff · 02/07/2023 17:40

The week after my period (ovulation week according to my Flo app) I look so much bigger. Honestly look like I've put on about two stone. I haven't, it's just bloating, but it drives me bananas.

Whenever I've got an event coming up, first thing I do is check flo and see where in my cycle I'll be, as it has a huge impact on my confidence.

Could it be cycle related?

TennisWithDeborah · 02/07/2023 20:11

If you could find the green leggings outfit and take a pic in the same pose, you may realise that you look better than you think.

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