Being consistent. This means making sure I am in a calorie deficit every single day, no cheat days and no cheat meals. Before, I would have a binge every week or so. One binge for me (I can eat a lot) undos all progress made in the previous week.
Eating enough calories. I eat around 1750 and have lost between 1 and 2 pounds every week for 11 weeks. While I admire those who can go long term on 1200 cals there is no way in hell that I could do that without regularly falling off the wagon. Eating more calories means that I don’t feel tempted to binge and I know I can stick to this long term.
Exercising. I make sure I do something every single day. This is yoga and either walking or jogging. It makes a huge difference for me and I know that if I didn’t do it I’d probably have to eat less. I want to start strength training at some point to get more definition.
Avoiding fad diets. Low carb doesn’t work for me, personally. Nor does VLCD.
Accepting that I will never be able to ‘eat what I want’ because eating without restriction for me is eating to massive excess. Therefore, I know I have to watch my food intake for life, even if I will be able to eat slightly more once I have lost the weight. This realisation that I have to watch food intake for life might seem horrific to some. But think about it - I can’t go on drug or alcohol binges either, even if I feel I want to. Wanting to doesn’t mean I should. Stopping oneself from indulging in harmful behaviour is not a bad thing. Eating a whole pizza and an tub of ice cream to myself is harmful to my body, just as necking a load of vodka is. Society tells us that it’s good to always indulge cravings but for people like me who don’t have an inbuilt regulation system, that isn’t an option. Looking back though, I never really enjoyed the food I ate during a binge so I don’t mind keeping an eye on it for life. I’d rather be healthy.