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Contemplating bariatric surgery.... advice?

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Seriouslyconfused3 · 08/05/2020 09:06

Hi as the title states I am contemplating a gastric sleeve. I am a serial yo yo dieter and my metabolism is fucked. I have pcos and have tried Xenical, saxenda etc- successful until I stop using and the weight piles back on.

I’ve seen an endocrinologist and he said that, in his opinion, sometimes surgery is the only viable option. I’d be paying for it myself as I don’t quite meet the nhs criteria yet.

I’m miserable- I don’t lose weight unless I starve myself ie 600 calories a day and then I’m even more unhappy. I’m worried about my health in the long term, but then the prospect of surgery scares me too.

Any advice from those who have been there before?

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needtoloselots · 25/07/2020 14:51

@Seriouslyconfused3 Hope everything goes ok on Monday.

@MonkeysandParrots and the same to you on Friday.

I hope @Cuddlecouch is ok.

I start my LRD and self isolation on Friday. Can't wait, but terrified at the same time!

Seriouslyconfused3 · 25/07/2020 14:59

Thanks guys- super excited now. I’ll keep you updated xx

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Sofasogood1 · 25/07/2020 16:12

OP - bit random but I had my surgery in June and it was so hot I sent DP out to buy a fan immediately. The hospital didn't have any and they can be so warm... So that might be something for your packing list!

DoorbellsSleighbellsSchnitzel · 25/07/2020 20:57

Good luck for Monday @Seriouslyconfused3! Looking forward to hearing all about it!

I'm still 'contemplating' rather than 'doing' at the moment, and we now have a dog to add to the madness in my house, so I'm being kept busy and have lost a few lbs by accident!

Realistically I think I'll be making enquiries towards the end of this year rather than now, but anyone with any recommendations in S.Wales please let me know!

passmethewineplease · 25/07/2020 23:11

Good luck SC!

I’m currently saving for bariatric surgery abroad, KCM Clinic in Poland to be specific. I was reluctant at first but after reading countless good reviews and speaking with people who’ve gone there I’m feeling super confident in my choice.

I have low iron at the moment that I need to get up so I’m taking Spatone now, fingers crossed it helps!

I am so fed up of losing the same 7lb. The stats for losing a large amount of weight and keeping it off without surgery is depressing.

I’m just trying to remember that it’s a tool not a magic fix. I’m hoping it will “reset” my body/mind.

Will be following this thread with interest. Smile

Seriouslyconfused3 · 26/07/2020 06:35

Thanks everyone. Unfortunately I’ve woken up this morning and my throat is on fire and I’ve got a temperature Sad Sad I’m going to ring the clinic when they open to see if it can still go ahead- I’m thinking with the Covid situation it won’t though. Absolutely gutted!

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Sofasogood1 · 26/07/2020 09:10

Just see how you go the rest of the day? You've not got Covid you know that

Sofasogood1 · 26/07/2020 09:11

I wouldn't call. You'll get cancelled

Seriouslyconfused3 · 26/07/2020 11:34

I called- I’m postponed. I understand- I’m a bit upset though I’m so annoyed at my stupid body Angry so just gonna try and have a relaxed day today eat normal food and load up on painkillers

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needtoloselots · 26/07/2020 12:13

That's so disappointing. Did they say when they would give you another date?

Seriouslyconfused3 · 26/07/2020 12:47

They’re going to ring me tomorrow- I’m thinking it might be a while away though. Can’t fault the clinic though they were so lovely about it. I just feel a bit of a failure

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needtoloselots · 26/07/2020 15:49

Don't feel a failure, it's not your fault. Really feel for you though.

MonkeysandParrots · 26/07/2020 16:25

@Seriouslyconfused3 Oh no! I’d just popped on here to wish you luck and read your news instead 😢. I hope you feel better soon.

That means I’m next up then! Am excited, have told my 3 closest friends now and all have been very supportive.

Oh, and, @DoorbellsSleighbellsSchnitzel, I’m in Bristol & I think my surgeon may operate across the bridge sometimes so will drop you his details by pm.

Seriouslyconfused3 · 26/07/2020 17:09

Thanks ladies. I feel pretty crappy- really bad throat and headache. Hopefully if I get a decent sleep I might feel brighter tomorrow.

Good luck @MonkeysandParrots I want all the updates- it’ll keep me motivated. How’s the lrd going?

I did treat myself to some bread today though after two weeks of lrd Blush. Back on healthy eating tomorrow though- I want to be in the best shape for when it comes around again!

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Seriouslyconfused3 · 26/07/2020 17:11

Thanks again @needtoloselots I’ve had a self pitying wallow today so will give myself a kick up the arse tomorrow. Tonight I’m paracetamol-Ing up, watching a soppy film and having an early night.

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EllaAlright · 26/07/2020 17:40

Wow! Good luck everyone. It is lovely to see a supportive bariatric surgery thread, mumsnet can be a bit harsh on this topic sometimes.

As I said upthread I had my surgery 10 months ago in Turkey. I have 2lbs to go till I hit my goal. For the first week or so after the op I definitely had feelings that is made a mistake, but it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

These are a few things I did, obviously different surgeons/ hospitals have their own guidelines;

After my op, it was 2 week liquids, 2 weeks purée then slightly more denser foods and I worked my way up from there.

There were a few things that helped me through those 4 weeks of liquid and purée. Drinking stock was quite nice as it’s savoury, and also watered down low sugar tomato soup. I hit my protein goals with my shakes and protein powder I had daily but I do crave a bit of savoury as well, so it was a nice change.

I know some people have baby food in their purée stage, but they aren’t nutritionally balanced for adults and they taste rank, so I avoided these! My favourite purée was cream cheese (normally laughing cow light) with salmon and broccoli blended together, really nice strong flavours and very filling. Chicken, veg and gravy/stock is another good meal blended, and you can freeze multiple portions from one cooking session. I avoided potatoes myself, although some people eat them, as I found they got quite claggy and didn’t blend to well with my meals, which was good as I didn’t want to go overboard with carbs. Sugar free jelly is another good one for a quick snack to grab, and I do admit that I had the odd serving of smooth Brussels pate too.

I have a book The Bariatric Bible, and it is really good, it’s got colour coded recipes depending on what stage you’re on (liquid, purée, soft food, normal eating etc...) and there’s also some good info on bariatric surgery in general before the recipes. I’ve made a few of them and they’re not to complex.

MonkeysandParrots · 26/07/2020 18:00

@Seriouslyconfused3 LRD ... well, fair to say, it’s not been perfect but only one real slip, pretty confident all will be fine,

MonkeysandParrots · 26/07/2020 18:04

@EllaAlright thanks for all that info, super useful, I‘ll be making some notes 😀

passmethewineplease · 26/07/2020 21:11

Good luck @MonkeysandParrots!

Hope you feel better soon @Seriouslyconfused3

@EllaAlright where did you in Turkey please?

EllaAlright · 26/07/2020 22:56

@passmethewineplease I went to Ekol Hospital in Izmir with Get Slim in Turkey.

DoorbellsSleighbellsSchnitzel · 26/07/2020 23:53

@Seriouslyconfused3, that's bad luck - sorry you're unwell, hope you recover soon and get a new date set.

LaurieFairyCake · 27/07/2020 17:02

I've just been given a provisional date Shock- end August !

I had no idea baby food wasn't nutritionally complete for adults - I thought it would be a good way of eating for a couple of weeks Grin

Seriouslyconfused3 · 27/07/2020 17:55

Yey @LaurieFairyCake which company and hospital have you gone with? I’m still waiting on my new date- got an awful feeling it’s going to be ages away though

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LaurieFairyCake · 27/07/2020 18:08

I've gone with my original guy in London as they were first to come back with a date - it's cheaper than I was quoted (I assume because I don't have any extra illnesses) so it's going to be £3k less

needtoloselots · 27/07/2020 18:42

Great news @LaurieFairyCake
I've got my blood test this Friday, Phone appt with the nurse next Monday, then COVID test on 8th. 😬