Just been described as...

[sweetnsuga123]

'A fat c' by two of my family members my brother and my dad today during an argument. They regularly call me fat all of the time and have done it for my whole life. I've actually lost weight lately but it still doesn't make a difference. It makes me so insecure I know I'm not skinny by any means but I am 5'11 and a size 12-14 and I have wide hips. They call me fat so often it makes me doubt whether I see my body properly so I would like some honest feedback or advice about how to improve or whether I am fatter than I realise? Does anyone else have this issue?

You aren't fat.

People calling you fat are just being nasty.
You're obviously not fat.

You are slim! You look very healthy.

Totally get it though, I've experienced similar and I literally have no concept of how big or small I am

You are nowhere near fat. You must know that. Do you live with the two lowlifes who called you a fat cunt?

You’re not fat. They’re the cunts.

You are not fat. They are being the cnuts

You are fabulously slim. Not that it would make it fucking ok if you were overweight mind. How awful of them.

You have a great body! Can you get away from them when this is all over? You deserve better than their verbal abuse.

Your dad and your brother called you that? It doesn't matter whether you are or you aren't (you know your not), your brother and dad sound like total arseholes....

Fucking hell.
No you’re not fat but even if you were that is seriously unacceptable abuse.
Who the hell do they think they are? I suppose both are god’s gift to the universe - in their eyes.
They’ve reduced your self confidence to the point where you can’t even look in the mirror and see yourself as you really look.
Please please please don’t put up with their shit any more and seriously think about going NC. You’re worth more than this.

You look lovely and are definitely NOT fat.

Your family are abusive and are deliberately targeting your insecurities by calling you fat as they know it will cause you the most upset.

Bastards.

You look great. They are horrible

Thankyou everyone for your lovely comments, I really appreciate it. Yes sadly I am self isolating with them so can't really get away but what they said is unacceptable even if I was obese you're right they shouldn't speak to me like that.

@sweetnsuga123

Do you live with them?

It concerns me that they've always behaved like this towards you,I'm assuming as a child this was happening too?

Yes I live with them for now. Yeah they've always done it. We get on most of the time but they've always made me feel low about my appearance so I have a bad body image and low self esteem.