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I know this is a very self indulgent thread but could someone say well done?
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Toscanello · 20/12/2019 00:31

After Christmas last year I decided I had to lose weight. I've now lost about 5- 6 stone. Not sure exactly as i am too scared to get on the scales. But I have gone from a size 22 to 12. My husband has said for years how unattractive my being overweight is. I have finally done something and he has never said a word. Not one. It hurts.. I know how self indulgent and send focused it us but I would just like someone to say well done. For everyone else struggling with weight loss I understand xx

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HirplesWithHaggis · 20/12/2019 00:33

Wow, that is an amazing achievement! Well done! And boot your man up the arse too.

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Shinyletsbebadguys · 20/12/2019 00:35

I totally get it , I'm coming up to 7 stone lost and at 5 I lost my rag with DP for not mentioning it.. he had a good reason but I completely get it.

It's a huge achievement no-one seems to get how it's the achievement of every time you powered through when you were tempted, the fact you broke old bad hugely tempting eating habits.

You really have done amazingly OP, I know how hard it was at times for me , so I completely get it.

It's a massive achievement be proud

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Tolleshunt · 20/12/2019 00:37

That is an AMAZING achievement!! Bloody well done you. You must have amazing will power and resilience.

Your ‘D’H, on the other hand, is a colossal bellend. What a horrible way to treat your partner. Bet he’s one of those who liked you, as he thought it, less attractive to other men, and was happy to have an excuse to stick the boot in. He’s Probably also feeling pissed off and jealous of your massive achievement, while he has achieved nothing like it.

Does he usually like to piss in your chips?

High five for you from me!!

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cakeandchampagne · 20/12/2019 00:37

Star Well done!

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Furrybootsyecomfy · 20/12/2019 00:38

Well done!! That’s amazing. Remember, you’re doing it for you, and if he hasn’t said anything he has a problem, not you.

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Sycamoretrees · 20/12/2019 00:39

To use a mumsnet cliche, it's sounds like you had a DH problem not a weight problem! Well done for losing the weight, enjoy the new slim you. Perhaps it will give you the confidence to demand to be treated with respect and love.

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xlkhs · 20/12/2019 00:44

Well done OP, it is really so hard to lose weight.

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justilou1 · 20/12/2019 00:59

Screw him! I am so mad at mine for only acknowledging my weight loss as a virtue signal when we are socialising with friends and one of them comments. THEN he will be Mr Supportive and say “Yeah, she looks great, doesn’t she?” Otherwise, I’m just as invisible as I always was.
Congratulations! I know how hard it has been to lose that weight!!! I don’t know about you, but I’m now wondering if I need to lose a separate 90kg human being.....

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katy1213 · 20/12/2019 01:31

That's amazing. You have achieved what I've promised myself (every year for past decade) and failed. The first stone is easy enough - but you persevered. If I'd managed this I would be over the moon. He is probably wondering if you intend to ditch him as well as the weight! Ignore him. Enjoy every moment - buy loads of new clothes - get your hair cut - dance (I miss dancing!) - run for buses and catch them - do all the things that fat stopped you doing - and leave the miserable sod to worry that you're out of his league!

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DramaAlpaca · 20/12/2019 01:32

Wow! Well done you, that is inspirational Star

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Coyoacan · 20/12/2019 01:37

Well done, OP. That's a major achievement. I'm not one who think people should lose weight for esthetic reasons. Your health and wellbeing are what is important

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Redshoeblueshoe · 20/12/2019 01:37

Fantastic. You do know how to loose several more stone ? Dump him

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dontdoubtyourself · 20/12/2019 07:51

Well done op!

If he has continued to show you love and care over this time and not been a total arse otherwise..

Maybe he didn't want you to think that he didn't love you whatever size you were.

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dontdoubtyourself · 20/12/2019 07:52

OK no I just re read ignore he's an dick head

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Dozer · 20/12/2019 07:53

Congratulations!

Raise it with your H. If he is kind to you in general? If he’s not, he’s a problem.

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Spodge · 20/12/2019 14:12

Well done, you. I know how tough it is, having done similar. Sorry your DH is being such an arse.

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Tryingtwo · 20/12/2019 16:27

Well done OP, you and other ladies on here who have lost 5+ stones and multiple drrss sizes are inspirational to those of us beginning to lose weight. You make me believe that if you can do it and I can do it too!
I'm not going to comment on your DH as it's the season of good will to all men but why the hell are you scared to get on the scales! Take a photo of your new weight have it blown up to poster size - celebrate it 🎉

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puds11 · 20/12/2019 16:29

You could loose about 13 stone of husband overnight

But congratulations on your weight loss. That is truly remarkable and is spurring me on in my own weight loss journey.

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MrsHardbroom · 20/12/2019 16:32

That's truly amazing. Now maybe time to lose another [insert husband's weight] stone? He sounds awful Sad

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GenuineKlatchianPottery · 20/12/2019 16:35

Well done OP. That’s a fantastic achievement.
Can I just add, your husband sounds like a complete wankbadger.

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My2ndfavouriteFword · 20/12/2019 16:37

You can be totally self indulgent and ask for a well done. That's amazing Xmas Smile
I really think you need to think about your marriage though. H doesn't sound nice.
I'm around a 20 to 22 and I've lost a stone and a bit so far. It's so hard!

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ShinyRuby · 20/12/2019 16:38

Well done, that's an amazing achievement! Seems odd your dh told you he found your weight unattractive yet can't compliment you on what is a bloody brilliant weight loss.
Sod him. You look after yourself & find a way to maintain that suits you. You'll look fab & he'll be a surly faced twat who is probably insecure about how good you now look.

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Riddleofthesands · 20/12/2019 18:59

Well done you, you should be so proud of yourself. That’s a huge achievement. Sorry your DH is being mean about it but don’t let it get you down. Hope you have a brilliant Christmas.

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Awittyusernameishardtofind · 21/12/2019 15:02

Sounds like there’s a few more unwanted pounds you could shift- your rude husband x
It’s a great achievement, hope you’re feeling the benefit for yourself and no one else x

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Blankiefan · 21/12/2019 18:46

He's shit. You're amazing.

I've lost 5 stone this year and my DH tells me loads how proud of me he is.

It's a huge achievement. You should be super proud of yourself. You deserve a partner in life who supports and recognises you - as you would him.

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