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No S diet - would anything like to join me?

94 replies

Stonebake · 16/10/2018 12:22

Hello!

There used to be a thread on here re the ‘No S’diet. I hope I’m not duplicating, but I can’t see any recent threads on here and I’m about to start tomorrow.

The rules are;

No sweets
No snacks
No seconds

Except on S days (Saturdays, Sundays and Special days like birthdays and Christmas).

It isn’t a quick fix, but theory goes that it’s easy to maintain once you’re in the habit.

I would like to lose a little weight, but breastfeeding seems to be helping me keep my weight down. I’m planning to stop breastfeeding next year, so I need to break some greedy habits I’ve picked up.

OP posts:
beela · 03/11/2018 11:17

We've been away, and it was my birthday (tho that was a legitimate s day!) so not very successful here either.

I always struggle when we're out of the usual routine. Having said that, I think I am more moderate than I used to be. It takes a long time for true habits to change.

Jamboree87 · 03/11/2018 17:38

Yup failed this week! It was my birthday but also continued to celebrate the other 4 days...oops! Start afresh I'm Monday! Xx

eltsihT · 04/11/2018 08:59

Can I join in please? I started no s’ing in August. I was 72kg I am now 68.3kg but am only down 0.2kg from last month.

Hoping I can get some support on here and stick to it.

misskatamari · 04/11/2018 18:59

Same here this week. Halloween etc has lead to lots of greediness. Back on it tomorrow! I keep reminding myself of what it says in the website about it usually taking a few attempts to crack it. We're just one attempt closer to that point now 😊

Jamboree87 · 08/11/2018 09:38

How's everyone getting on this week? I'm enjoying the no calorie counting! Xx

DontFundHate · 08/11/2018 20:16

Well done @Jamboree87

Another terrible week here. I'm so sleep deprived and am trying to do too much at once, overhaul my diet, declutter my house, use social media less... It's all too much! I think I'll keep trying but I hate the guilt when I don't manage it.

Jamboree87 · 10/11/2018 13:44

@DontFundHate it's so hard isn't it, to juggle everything. I'm also trying to get in to better habits with housework also.

Not sure if I'm losing any weight though lol. I will weight on Monday and see. If I've not put on I'll be happy.

It's the between dinner and bed I find the hardest, when you've got the kids to bed and done the tidying etc and you just want that little treat after a long day.

Xx

Mrsbclinton · 11/11/2018 06:49

I haven't posted as Ive had a terrible few days eating more than ever......
Back on the wagon again and off I go!

Jamboree87 · 13/11/2018 12:43

So didn't lose but didn't put on either so I suppose an okay week. Yesterday and today I've snacked...meh!

I did see on the website it can take a few attempts, although it's still disappointing that I've failed again.

DontFundHate · 15/11/2018 16:59

Another failed attempt!

Thanks for pointing out the website, I've taken this from it, I found it very hopeful and will try again

Sometimes it takes a false start (or 12)
Some people, like me, get No S the first time they try it. It works and it sticks. But most people have a bit more trouble than that. In fact, you might do best if you assume you'll screw up the first time, so you don't get too discouraged. Consider it a reconnaissance mission, a trial run, just to feel out how hard it's going to be and where problems are going to arise. If the enemy, appetite, turns out to be such a chump that your reconnaissance mission routs him, great, you've succeeded. It might be that easy, you won't know until you try. If not, you've learned more about him, where he's likely to ambush you. You're stronger, better prepared for next time. Don't feel stupid for trying and failing. Success is the sum of many failures. This isn't just pep talk. According to a recent article I was pointed to (thanks, Valerie):

Studies show that altering eating habits for good requires 10 to 12 concerted attempts to succeed - which is to say about a dozen failures come before the eventual success. "That's not reason to despair," said John Norcross, professor of psychology at the University of Scranton in Pennsylvania and a researcher on self-initiated change. "If anything, it's reason to say, 'I'm not doing so bad.' "

So quit dawdling and get some failures under your belt!

Need something more inspirational than another pseudostatistic? Try Winston Churchill: "Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm."

The Right Level of Abstraction
Most commercial diets are too complicated for people with outside interests to follow ("eating = math"). Most conventional wisdom rules about diet are too simplistic and vague to be useful ("only eat when you're hungry"). The No S Diet finds the happy medium between the two. It's simple and specific. As a computer programmer, I'm always looking for the right level of abstraction for the problem at hand -- the simplest way of conceptualizing a problem that will actually solve it. For diet, I think this is it.

As a thoughtful poster to the No S Diet group put it:

It reminds me of a Buddhist proverb: "Before I studied Zen, a mountain was just a mountain...after I began to study Zen, a mountain was no longer just a mountain, then, when I completed my studies, the mountain became a mountain again." All that means is, if you look at the problem of weight loss in very short terms, No-S looks like a great solution. If you start studying it, things get confusing and it may look like No-S isn't the best solution any more. After you've spent a few years on the problem, you realize that No-S is a great solution, and that there are a bunch of fairly complicated things you can do to make it marginally better. But is it worth years to figure out how to make a great solution marginally better?

DontFundHate · 15/11/2018 17:00

Oops I didn't mean to copy so much, it's the first bit about failure that I liked

misskatamari · 15/11/2018 17:15

Thanks @DontFundHate I think it's a really useful thing to bear in mind when doing this. All too often my weightloss attempts fail because i start off well and then go off track and feel bad about it. This helps to spin that on it's head, and is a good mindset to have.

I'm doing pretty well this week. Have had the odd snack when needed, but generally fruit, or some crackers and cheese today as I wasn't feeling great. I've been avoiding the sweet stuff and haven't snacked in the evenings which is my big downfall. Wasn't too bad at the weekend either. Some treats but didn't go overboard. Hope everyone else is doing okay.

Jamboree87 · 16/11/2018 09:45

I suppose it's about sensible snacking too those days where you need that extra boost between meal to have fruits or veg instead of a biscuit or crisps. I will attempt again next week and see.

DontFundHate · 16/11/2018 11:23

What are you all eating instead of sweet stuff? I'm terrible for cake, chocolate etc, I'm so tired I need something for energy!

Jamboree87 · 16/11/2018 17:12

@DontFundHate if I'm sticking to the s diet I'll have a peice of fruit of carrots sticks.. I try and not snack but if I really really need something I'll have the above. This week my snacks have included anything and everything thing Cake

DontFundHate · 17/11/2018 10:52

Hmmmm thanks, definitely very sensible! I'm really not a huge fruit person (I eat loads of veg), but I've remembered I've got some sweet tasting fancy teas to use up, I'll see if they hit the spot

rivierliedje · 17/11/2018 21:11

May I join in?
I have done No s before and found it very helpful. Recently had a lot of changes with a move and started eating erratically again.
I would like to rebuild the habits.

ohthegoats · 18/11/2018 00:45

I'd like to join in, I'm properly struggling with diet dithering at the moment. I need something that's not massively restrictive in terms of food-stuffs, but also low sugar because I'm menopausal and I'm trying to reduce it. I want to move towards intuitive eating, but for the moment I've lost my way about what a healthy relationship with healthy food is, so need some basic structure initially.

I also need to sort out my binge exercising - running 3 miles a day for a week, then sitting around doing bugger all for 10 days, on repeat. Just every other day, half hour of heart-rate raising stuff would be fine.

I'm going to try and focus on what I can add in to my diet, rather than what I'm trying to avoid... from a nutritional perspective.

I weighed myself the other day, it was horrific - I'm the same weight as I was when I was 9 months pregnant. 3 stone to lose.

DontFundHate · 18/11/2018 18:18

Hello new people! Good luck this week everyone Star

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