DH and I were talking about how different I'm carrying this time I'm pregnant than before. I weighed more before my 1st pregnancy than I did before this time. I lost weight since I had baby 1 and was chuffed. I didn't think at the time but DH didn't put much pass on it. But today in our conversation I brought it up and he totally belittled me and said 'that it didn't really count cos I lost muscle and probably had a higher fat %'. He said this wasn't the healthy way of doing it and the cheaters way and 'the easy but not long lasting way' 
Now, I did loose quiet a lot of weight that I had carried for as long as I remember. I don't know much about the sciencey bit of weight loss but I changed my diet steadily, made healthy choice and exercised. I feel healthier so I guess I am healthier but maybe I don't know the full ins and outs of it.
It's not even that I'm upset about. I just feel as if he is making my weight loss out to be something easy and I didn't do it the proper way 