Wow what amazing results some people have! Not been on here for a while but good to check back in and see how everyone is getting on! HN313naGraham are you still losing weight gradually? I love the kale crisps idea - only problem will make me crave a glass of wine!! Cake baker - thats a fantastic result well done:)
OK so I've been on the diet since Jan 1 and am still sticking to it as much as possible. Its been quite difficult as unlike some others my DH although wonderful in almost every way is rather unsympathetic to my dieting. He's not actually critical, in fact he says nice complimentary things, but it feels like he is sabotaging my attempts by the back door if you see what I mean. We have a very active social life which last weekend involved 3 yes 3 meals out Thurs/Fri/Sat all having the taster menu, we were in large groups which means no choice, eat 10 courses. Plus wine. Basically nightmare for diet. Even when not doing taster menu its still quite crap having to sit there with DH and DCs all tucking in to high cal treats, starters, plenty of wine, cocktails, desserts etc and sticking to water, steamed fish and veg etc :( Almost every time we go out to eat we have an argument about whether to have starters or not and all the kids (teens and young adults) side against me so I sit there starving with my water while they tuck into mountains of calorific things. And then they start making little digs at me for being a kill joy/smug:( Of my 4 kids 3 of them are incredibly skinny both boys and girls, never get sick, and can eat for ever and never put on an ounce, the fourth and youngest is carrying a little extra, but no more than half a stone or so and he's very healthy and plays rugby 4 times a week, so none of them really need to cut back. There is no point discussing it with DH he just says he didn't marry a puritan. Eating out, socialising with people is a priority for him although he is about 1.5 stone overweight, drinks too much and could do with not eating or drinking half the stuff he does. Deep down he knows that so any type of lecture/nag from me results in a massive row so I just don't go there now. If I try to suggest we don't book so many meals out with friends that doesn't go well either :( This post has turned into something else not diet related - sorry ! Honestly, I think it would be pretty easy to stick to any diet if he was doing it with me and not booking endless meals out at gourmet restaurants. Anyone else got any suggestions for dealing with unsupportive partners or families????
Rant over, back to diet, in the context above, I've had to be extra careful on days when thankfully I can control what I eat. So I've basically stuck to a regime on weekdays of 2 very small meals , plus juices. Because I've not been able to stick 100% in any week because of the above I don't know whether I would lose weight in the maintenance phase with the 3 meals, I suspect not. The bottom line is that I'm now down almost a stone since Jan, and pretty happy with that on the whole especially given the difficulties! I even treated myself to a couple of new bits from the shops today and was very pleased to find I'm 2 dress sizes down from when I started and almost everything tailored in my wardrobe is now too big.
I have also started to vary my meals a little bit not sticking religiously to sirt. I've just had dinner with squash noodles (the spiralized ones- you can get them in Sainsburys) for example, made with a tomato, red onion, celery black garlic and flat leaf parsley sauce (delicious) also made myself a batch of Deliciously Ella's raw chocolate and orange brownies; I figured they had the cacao in them - highly recommended, just a small square really hit those chocolate cravings! I'll also be giving painter lady's soup a go - looks yummy. Another treat for me is having the buckwheat pancakes, topped with red onions gently sautéed in a little olive oil until soft, and the tiniest smidgen of strong cheddar sprinkled over the top then put under a hot grill or microwave until the cheese melts....(cheese in the wholemeal pitta is in the maintenance phase as a lunch so I just use that much) - that was an amazing post yoga class brekkie!
Good luck everyone wherever you are on your journey - I'm sure that if you have stuck to any kind of diet for this long since Jan you deserve a pat on the back for navigating through everything that life throws at you , and even losing just 1 or 2 lbs a week, if you keep it up will turn into stones before you know where you are - and is much, much better than putting it on!