REALISTICALLY..............

[MoreEggnogAnyone]

will I ever look like those gorgeous women who can wear a bikini and look fabulous on everything.

I weigh 11 and half stone and I'm 5.2 in height.

What do I have to do and what is the best I can hope for?

so it's not happening for me?

I am not aiming for a bikini after 2 big babies I don't have much chance of that. But I do have more realistic goals.

I am 13st7oz. Healthy eating is just part of my plan, I have started going to the gym and will be going to some yoga or aerobic classes too. I need to improve my general fitness and tone up. I got a special referal so I get the gym and classes for £1 or £2.

I would say yes you can and yes you will!
What are you trying to do to get fit?

Yeh I suppose I should be more realistic. I'm upset by my weight. I knocked my pan in for my sisters wedding during the summer and thought I had done really well. But TBH the pictures made me cry.

I've had two sections and been told that the stomach will always flop around. A toned tummy will never be mine.

BTW I hate bikinis anyway so even if I was a twig I wouldn't wear one . But no reason why you can't aim for that. I have a big belly overhang so I am struggling with that.

DH think I just need to do sit ups. DS was 11lb7oz I suspect it would need surgery.

I have the dvd of charlie brooks workout, Its great. I haven't done ot for a while and started again last week. I do it 3/4 times a week.