I need advice or guidance I have been big since I was a child and it has ruined my social life, I have never been to a night club or to a fairground and haven't wore a bikini since I was a child. I have a lot to loose and I want to loose it for my DS and DH and ME. But I always struggle because the amount I need to loose is so vast. I try to think 1lb a week for example then get upset as I work out how long it would take me to loose the weight. Has any one lost a serious amount of weight ( naturally) how did you do it? Or if you have a similar target weight loss whats keeping you in the straight and narrow. Please share your success as this is gunna be a life change for me and need your support.