I've got a pre-op on Monday, at a hospital 20 miles away. I have to go by bus (husband is working and ironically is a bus driver). I have to catch two buses and then walk up a big hill from the station.
I have trouble walking (which is what the operation is for), but even more so when it's hot, add in the fact that my asthma has been giving me hell when it's hot, I really don't want to go (plus the fact I've got the pre-op means the op must be soon, but we're going on holiday in August, plus DD needs a lot of things for the new school year bought during the holidays - the op means I won't be able to walk for 3 - 6 months, and totally bedbound for 8 weeks).
DD's school has also moved to remote learning due to the heat next week, so don't want to leave her for hours.
Not sure what to do. I feel I can't phone up and rearrange today as they'll laugh at me.
Oh wow this sounds rough.
It sounds like there are two separate issues--getting to the pre-op appointment in the heatwave, and the scheduling of your op potentially conflicting with other things.
For the first: cancelling might be the best choice, but otherwise I would say factor in extra time for your journey so you can do the walking parts as slowly as possible. Take drinking water (extra bottle in the freezer overnight so it is nice and cold as it melts). Wear a sun hat and stick to the shade as much as possible. Put a damp teatowel in the freezer the night before and take it along to put on the back of your neck as you travel. Is a taxi a possibility for any part of the journey?
For the second, I think you and your family need to think about what works best for you, get information about op date if possible and keep in mind that it will be inconvenient no matter when it happens. Good luck.