Has anyone pointed out on there about the back to sleep campaign??? They go on about they are only guidlines and didn't do us any harm but do they follow back to sleep and if so, why not weaning guidelines?? Sleeping on back was proven to reduce SIDs so guidelines changed (in between 2 of my kids, year apart) everyone followed those guidelines, I don't get why weaning isn't the same
Would love to know their answers to that
scaredoflove i hate to be the one to tell you but there are quite a few bounty mums that are above any guidelines i have been horrified by posts since i've been in 0-3 on putting small babies to sleep on their fronts. a taster
Also the numerous threads about still smoking whilst pregnant saddened me in my due in month. I spent 9 months sitting on my hands so i didn't tell them what i thought of their attitudes towards that. Some were even convinced it did their baby no harm and had smoked through every pregnancy with the added bonus of getting extra scans because they are a smoker..
Regarding babies sleeping through mine seemed to come without a sleep button that made her sleep 12 hours, or 10 or 6 or anything worth mentioning till she was 19 months god help me Fact is some babies just don't sleep until alot older, i'm sick of reading posts on bounty like 'my ds is 3 weeks and still not sleeping through... i can't cope with the sleep deprivation.. how long should i leave him to cry' arrrgggghhhhh they're babies they aren't all programmed to do the same thing at set times. Why oh why do i keep reading their posts.. i may just daily bash my head against a wall to make it hurt from that instead.
I dread to think the advice bounty mums would have given me on my dd, she did have a spell of sleeping through from 9-12 weeks slept an incredible 10-12 hrs every night. Then it all went horribly wrong, but i didn't wean her and i carried on breastfeeding on demand, i never saw that as a sign she was hungry, i saw it as as things had changed, as they do, and she was just crap at sleeping for very long in a row
And i just want to shout at them all, CUDDLE YOUR BABIES GODDAMIT why do they believe babies can be spoilt with too much affection??? I keep stopping myself from posting studies on babies that are carried/held alot cry less, are more secure, alert etc etc but i know they all know better and leaving a little baby to 'cry it out' till they learn their lesson is much better...
Sorry i seem to be rather riled today by bounty but i haven't slept properly for the last 2 years so i'm allowed to be a bit narky me thinks