War title,what's a damage ball?
When you do raids, you can get extra balls for doing lots of damage. If all your Pokemon faint and you have to rejoin the battle, you don't get any balls for damage, and when you're trying to catch a legendary, all balls count!
I don't really want to network and hook up with others as they are mostly kid
I very much doubt they'd be mostly kids. Of the 50+ people in our small towns WhatsApp group, there's only two kids and that's because their parents were into it first and got them into it (and they're both under 10). Majority age is 30.
The game is played by adults because it was brought out when we were kids and we grew up with it.
I hoped it would be this summer
They would never have released Gen 3 this summer; they only released Gen 2 in the Spring and they like to give people lots of time to get everything.
Most likely outcome for Gen 3 is next Spring, then it's been a year and everyone's had ample time. They might release it late autum/winter but I doubt that as people play less in the winter and even a new Gen wouldn't be very tempting when the weathers awful.
They've also said they're 6 months behind from where they wanted to be due to all the problems they faced at the beginning and had to rectify, so in the next 6 months it seems likely we might get PVP or trading.