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Non-vegan who believe themselves to be animal lovers

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Milake · 02/04/2024 11:16

How do they ignore the obvious hypocrisy?
How do they live with the cognitive dissonance?

I am almost jealous of their ability to live in such a state that allows them to detach themselves from the reality of the consequences of their choices.

OP posts:
VeronicaBeccabunga · 02/04/2024 14:31

Perhaps vegans and vegetarians should read this book and realise that plants have feelings too:
Planta Sapiens: Unmasking Plant Intelligence: Amazon.co.uk: Calvo, Paco, Lawrence, Natalie: 9780349128436: Books
Of course this does not justify any sort of abuse of animals but it is a real eye-opener.

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 14:32

LifeExperience · 02/04/2024 13:20

Some people anthropomorphize animals too much. I once watched a smallholder harvest pigs. He had two pigs that were littermates. They had spent their entire lives together, slept curled up together, etc. He put down food for the pigs so they would put their heads down and quickly dispatched the first pig. The second pig kept eating and never even looked up.

Food animals are not people. They don't have the emotions we do and they have no knowledge of death. To anthropomorphize them is a disservice to them and us. And bacon is delicious.

Of course non-human animals are not people but they do have emotions, pigs have at least as many emotions as dogs and cats do. I know a former smallholder who is now vegan partly because of the grief she saw in the family members of the animals her husband killed. One of the ducks stopped eating and died after his mate was killed. The mother sheep were distraught when their babies were taken and killed. The fact that apparently this one pig didn’t mind when his/ her brother or sister was killed beside him or her doesn’t mean non-human animals don’t experience joy, fear, anger, stress, contentment, companionship and even love.

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 14:34

VeronicaBeccabunga · 02/04/2024 14:31

Perhaps vegans and vegetarians should read this book and realise that plants have feelings too:
Planta Sapiens: Unmasking Plant Intelligence: Amazon.co.uk: Calvo, Paco, Lawrence, Natalie: 9780349128436: Books
Of course this does not justify any sort of abuse of animals but it is a real eye-opener.

Plants do not “have feelings”. They respond to stimulus. If they did have feelings, less plants are used for a plant based diet (due to food conversion ratios of animals killed for meat/ used for eggs and dairy).

Megifer · 02/04/2024 14:41

totallybonkerswarning · 02/04/2024 13:54

There's nothing wrong with being a hypocrit. It's just a description of the situation.

You display love and affection for animals in some sceneros, and let animals be tortured and slain in others.

That does sound like I'm critizing you so I'll point out I'm honestly not, just difficult to get the tone right with text.

I'm fine with being a hypocrit, everyone is, vegans included as they too allow and are complicit in animals being slain in some situations.

i do what I can in other ways, which is a lot and will continue to be the animal lover that I am and do the things i do to help the ones i come across ☺️ I just find it interesting that some vegans appear to use hypocrit and "you're not an animal lover" as some sort of argument when surely it's better for a meat eater to care about some animals rather than none.

I liken it to the church/school thing - genuine church goers who feel strongly about their religion and sense of community are usually happy when ANYONE finds their way to the church for whatever reason. We're just happy something has brought the person there and if they leave feeling a connection in whatever way, even if for a short while, that's a good thing. For me (when I was vegan, and many vegans I know) I felt similar about meat eaters calling themselves animal lovers, if that meant they'd save one mouse, frog, spider, bird etc. then that was good enough for me. Because the alternative is they don't care about any animal, which is counter productive.

TroysMammy · 02/04/2024 14:52

I don't think my cat would taste very nice. He would be rather fatty.

I eat meat but don't buy from places like Temu and I don't buy Spanish fruit and vegetables grown in greenhouses because of the plastic they use which ends up in the eco system.

Humans are meant to eat meat because of our canine teeth and our eyes are situated in the front of our face.

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 14:57

PotatoPudding · 02/04/2024 12:08

Unless you’re growing your own food or buying from the Co-op, animals are being shot to keep them off the crops.

DH comes home after 2-3 hours in a field and has easily shot 20 rabbits and a few dozen pigeons. On a night-time shoot, he’ll be adding deer and foxes to the count as well.

To the best of my knowledge, the Co-op is the only big UK brand that does not use lethal pest control methods. All your local farm shops will be shooting the shit out anything that comes within a metre of their crops.

Really interested about the co-op, where did you find out they don’t use lethal pest control?

The definition of veganism is to avoid animal exploitation as far as possible and practicable as we can never totally reduce harm, however more plants are fed to animals than humans so a plant based diet still involves less animals being killed in “pest control” as well as no animals being killed in slaughterhouses.

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 14:58

TroysMammy · 02/04/2024 14:52

I don't think my cat would taste very nice. He would be rather fatty.

I eat meat but don't buy from places like Temu and I don't buy Spanish fruit and vegetables grown in greenhouses because of the plastic they use which ends up in the eco system.

Humans are meant to eat meat because of our canine teeth and our eyes are situated in the front of our face.

Humans can thrive on plants. Plus if you’ve seen the canine teeth of a gorilla (herbivore) or a hippo (herbivore) you’ll see they are not a very good indication of what we need to eat.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 02/04/2024 14:59

I have absolutely no difficulty whatsoever in being both an animal lover and a meat eater, @Milake.

No amount of holier-than-thou sneering is going to change my mind or my eating habits.

FestiveAuntFanny · 02/04/2024 15:13

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 11:38

This is the vegan board, OP is asking other vegans. It is hard to understand the cognitive dissonance for us (albeit as above I do think I understand it at some level).

Well nothing in my post precludes me from being a vegan does it?

Waggytail · 02/04/2024 15:15

Is this thread really holier than thou vegan sneering or do people just not like being challenged on this facet of their morals?

I'm not a vegan but PPs responses have been interesting.

Newsenmum · 02/04/2024 15:17

it can be difficult (and expensive) to be vegan on top of everything else going on in life. And then there’s using completely vegan products - it’s an absolute commitment. We just need everyone to try their best to reduce what they can where they can

DancefloorAcrobatics · 02/04/2024 15:23

Milake · 02/04/2024 11:16

How do they ignore the obvious hypocrisy?
How do they live with the cognitive dissonance?

I am almost jealous of their ability to live in such a state that allows them to detach themselves from the reality of the consequences of their choices.

Vegan food = no animal products = mono cultures = bad for animals & environment.

Please stop kidding yourself.

Magyk · 02/04/2024 15:26

@DancefloorAcrobatics i completely agree and find it mind bending that most of the vegan contributors to this thread can’t acknowledge that there might be other sides to this. They seem to think their view is right and the rest of us must be wracked with guilt. No we’re not because we don’t believe being vegan equals kinder to animals. It is not that simple.

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 15:33

Hoppinggreen · 02/04/2024 11:31

I can guarantee you I do more for animals via various voluntary activities than the vast majority of Vegans or Vegetarians.
One of the most selfless animal rescuers I know, who has devoted her entire life to wildlife rescue eats meat.
Loving animals by solely not eating animal products is pretty easy and not as time consuming or heartbreaking as some of the things people who rescue do and a lot of us also eat meat etc

There are plenty of vegan sanctuaries too, where farmed animals are rescued, and nobody is killed (other than euthanasia for the terminally ill). If I save a dog one day and pay someone to kill a healthy young dog the next it doesn’t make the killing any less unethical surely, and people would still call me out if I said “I love dogs” after paying for one to be stabbed/ electrocuted/ gassed.

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 15:37

Magyk · 02/04/2024 15:26

@DancefloorAcrobatics i completely agree and find it mind bending that most of the vegan contributors to this thread can’t acknowledge that there might be other sides to this. They seem to think their view is right and the rest of us must be wracked with guilt. No we’re not because we don’t believe being vegan equals kinder to animals. It is not that simple.

It’s not really about being kind to animals. Me not killing someone isn’t kind, it’s basically neutral and expected. In any event veganism is about avoiding animal exploitation as far as possible and practicable. Most plants grown are fed to animals, due to food conversion ratios we could farm food crops much more efficiently if we stopped killing/ exploiting animals for food. We would also cause less “crop deaths” as less plants would need to be grown.

shockthemonkey · 02/04/2024 15:38

TinkerTiger · 02/04/2024 12:40

Let me guess, you're vegan? 😏

A vegan who also roasts chickens apparently…

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 15:40

SoupDragon · 02/04/2024 12:21

So they just want made up shit rather than people's actual reasons?

Well no. Because vegans who used to be non vegan can say what held them back from making the switch before?

pinkmushroom5 · 02/04/2024 15:40

DoYouSmokePaul · 02/04/2024 11:21

I suppose it’s similar to people who believe that they care about human rights and children’s welfare yet buy phones and clothing etc. made by people/children in unacceptably inhumane conditions.

This. I don't think there is a single human on the planet living without some degree of cognitive dissonance/ hypocrisy.

Hoppinggreen · 02/04/2024 15:40

kikisparks · 02/04/2024 15:33

There are plenty of vegan sanctuaries too, where farmed animals are rescued, and nobody is killed (other than euthanasia for the terminally ill). If I save a dog one day and pay someone to kill a healthy young dog the next it doesn’t make the killing any less unethical surely, and people would still call me out if I said “I love dogs” after paying for one to be stabbed/ electrocuted/ gassed.

Ok
Not sure why stabbing dogs is relevent here and its that sort of ridiculous hyperbole that puts people off listening to some vegans.
Not eating meat and animal products does not make you a saint and as I said I am sure that myself and the other people I know involved in animal rescue and rehab have done more and care more and have given up more time and money than the vast majority of people who feel smug just because they knit their own pasta or whatever.

TheMixedGirl · 02/04/2024 15:41

I think live and let live. You sound like a typical judgmental holier than thou vegan.

HangingOver · 02/04/2024 15:42

I can't really castigate people for this since it's exactly what I used to do.

It is bonkers though.

shockthemonkey · 02/04/2024 15:47

Just out of curiosity, is “hypocrit” the new spelling?

DeeCeeCherry · 02/04/2024 15:50

This is the Vegan Board - even if it is in Active. People answering as if they're on AIBU makes no sense its just arguing for arguments sake

Its an interesting question. Vegan + wear sustainable clothing. But, I have a mobile phone; what about its links to Congo genocide? Humans are just as important as animals. Which makes me a hypocrite I suppose, as are many of us. I'll have to ponder on this a bit more.

Hoppinggreen · 02/04/2024 15:50

TheMixedGirl · 02/04/2024 15:41

I think live and let live. You sound like a typical judgmental holier than thou vegan.

who cooks chicken in their airfryer apparently.
If so, bit of a "hypocrit"

Lalalalalabambaa · 02/04/2024 15:52

Funderthighs · 02/04/2024 11:20

I love animals but if we didn’t rear them as a food source, there wouldn’t be as many of them. No one would keep & support herds if cows, flicks of sheep, etc, just for the pleasure of looking at them. Sure a few people would have a few but mist people wouldn’t be able to afford it.

Surely it's better for an animal to never be born than to live a short life of suffering then get killed?

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