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Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight

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Nadsthakur · 12/07/2026 01:40

During security screening, approximately 25 ounces of my frozen expressed breast milk was confiscated and discarded. I was told that because it was frozen, it could not be tested and therefore could not be taken through security.

I explained several times that this milk was for my 8-month-old daughter, who is unable to latch and is exclusively fed expressed breast milk. This was not simply a drink or an inconvenience, it was my daughter's only prepared source of nutrition for our journey. Despite explaining this, I was told there was nothing that could be done, and I had to stand there and watch as the milk was thrown away.

I cannot put into words how upsetting this was. Expressing 25 ounces of breast milk takes an enormous amount of time, dedication and physical effort. It means pumping throughout the day and night, carefully storing every bottle and planning ahead. Every ounce represents hours of work. To have it thrown away in front of me, after explaining exactly how important it was, was absolutely heartbreaking.

What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card and sent on my way. It genuinely felt as though nobody cared that an 8-month-old baby had just lost the only food I had prepared for her. The complete lack of compassion shown towards me as a mother was deeply upsetting and made an already distressing situation even worse.

Instead of looking forward to our holiday, I boarded an international flight feeling anxious and devastated, worrying about how I was going to feed my daughter while we were away. No parent should ever be put in that position.

Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested, and I was given no alternative option when I reached security.

I do not know the names of the officers involved, but im sure they can be identified through CCTV footage and staff rosters for the security checkpoint.
I want Manchester Airport to provide a full explanation of why my daughter's expressed breast milk was confiscated.
The specific policy or security procedure that required it to be discarded.
An explanation of why no alternative screening method. The time and physical effort it took to express and store it, and the significant distress, anxiety and disruption this caused to both me and my family.im supposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her. She doesnt latch and only has expressed milk. Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
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JuvenileBigfoot · 12/07/2026 16:27

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:32

And she caused herself distress! And she now wants to complain about the security people, who are doing their job. She kept insisting she was right, she still saying g she’s right.

She “missed” that rule and is blaming others for that?

The security guards, are being called dicks, jobsworths, useless etc etc? Is that acceptable for someone just doing their job? Is that not a stressful day at work for them? Do they deserve that?

This.

I bet she wasn't particularly polite to them either, the OP sounds like she was there for ages arguing with them because she is a MOTHER and her baby absolutely CANNOT be expected to eat formula in an emergency.

Hohumbrumbrum · 12/07/2026 16:27

This seems overly dramatic given the only person who made a mistake sadly was you OP.

The security staff have no discretion because the consequences if they get it wrong could result in hundreds or thousands of people dead.

It's sucks that you made a mistake and it had to be thrown away, I'm not quite sure why you want security staff names when they acted perfectly properly and the screw up is on you not them.

Also, I get that expressing is hard, but the 'every ounce is hours of work' is a huge exaggeration, as if an ounce was even 1 hours work, pumping 24 hours a day wouldn't give you enough to sustain your baby.

Macaroni46 · 12/07/2026 16:32

CallItLoneliness · 12/07/2026 16:04

Where in the UK do you fly from? Because I fly multiple times a year all over the world, and my experience is that the UK staff are very shouty, usually due to poor airport design and signage. They are also poorly trained, and incredibly slow, and that is going through fast track. In contrast, I went through the normal security line in Helsinki airport in the post covid meltdown summer of 2022, and they screened 200 people in about 20 minutes, with no shouting required.

I also know a bit about the aviation industry, and find it both fascinating and either disturbing or hilarious that on a site for mothers, everyone is saying how reasonable it is to have to entrust an infant's main or only food source to checked luggage. If white men needed a large amount of a liquid that had to be frozen to be comfortable, much less survive, you can be damn sure we would have figured out a way to test it by now. That's setting aside the fact security procedures are demonstrably not very secure, discriminatory, and respond to an incident that, while tragic, resulted in just over half of the number of American lives lost in the for Osama Bin Laden. Oh, and by the way, about half of those deaths were preventable, as the evacuation of the second tower was cancelled, and people sent back to work, and yet we see no such changes to evacuation procedures.... But sure, making it super difficult for some babies to eat on or after flights is definitely reasonable, and "just use formula" (when that isn't an option for many babies for many reasons) is the right response, rather than "why the fuck are we making one failed terrorist attempt more important than feeding actual live babies who have to travel, or whose mothers have to travel?"

I’ve actually found the opposite, ie that the British security staff are polite whereas in some European airports and the USA they’re very brusque indeed.

Samysungy · 12/07/2026 16:33

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 14:23

Compassion for what? For being an idiot?

They did their job.

Whats the alternative?

To pay to put it in the hold as the rules state they can

troothfairy · 12/07/2026 16:41

Hopefully you’re having a lovely day at your hotel by now @Nadsthakur, and you and your baby are both fine and fed and calmer.

I think the best outcome to all of this stress and upset is to get Ryanair (and other airlines where required) to specify on their website that frozen breast milk cannot be taken in hand luggage, so that this doesn’t happen to anyone else.

Cherry8809 · 12/07/2026 16:47

TreeLoverr · 12/07/2026 16:07

People on here are piling on you because they think you doing your all to try and breastfeed your child is a comment on formula. That’s their own issue. Ignore them.

I would complain to the airport and ask them to make their guidelines clearer, tell them the distress caused and the attitude of the security. It doesn’t take much to be kind about something so stressful and they made a difficult situation worse by their manner.

I would complain to the airport and ask them to make their guidelines clearer

The airport couldn’t be more clear 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
How much more do you want it spelling out, when it quite literally says “You can carry breast milk in your hand luggage, however frozen breast milk is not allowed”?

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
MSDOUBTFIRE · 12/07/2026 16:53

You should have done your research. This was your own fault.

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · 12/07/2026 16:55

Who was it that wrote she was in the same queue as OP at the airport..? 😅

Simonjt · 12/07/2026 16:55

LastoneYawning · 12/07/2026 15:33

That is awful. And no. It shouldn’t have happened. They could have taken a small amount and defrosted it for testing. I’m so cross with all the ‘formula’ suggestions. This is a policy that needs rethinking with babies at the centre.

They rightly cannot break aviation law. OP could take an unlimited amount of liquid breast milk in her hand luggage or an unlimited amount of frozen milk in hold luggage. It isn’t so much testing being the issue, frozen solids obscure x-rays, so each bag would need to be fully liquid before going through the security scanner.

allthewa · 12/07/2026 17:03

Samysungy · 12/07/2026 16:33

To pay to put it in the hold as the rules state they can

You can’t just leave security and go back. The rules are very clear.

Snizzwizzler · 12/07/2026 17:13

Every ounce is hours of work?

WonderfulSmith · 12/07/2026 17:17

It doesn’t matter if the op should or shouldn’t be EBF her child or if she should or shouldn’t buy some formula.
It doesn’t matter if the staff are polite or not.
It doesn’t matter if the rules are there for a good reason, security theatre or so that the airside shops can make money selling over priced water.
She failed to research something properly and has made out that it wasn’t her fault. She has no reason to complain to anyone.

RedToothBrush · 12/07/2026 17:18

notimagain · 12/07/2026 16:17

@CallItLoneliness

That's setting aside the fact security procedures are demonstrably not very secure, discriminatory, and respond to an incident that, while tragic, resulted in just over half of the number of American lives lost in the for Osama Bin Laden. Oh, and by the way, about half of those deaths were preventable, as the evacuation of the second tower

Given you claim to know a bit about the aviation industry I'm surprised you've singled out that one event - you must know a lot of the procedures in place either pre-date 9/11 -many actually hark back to events in the late 60s/early 70s,)..shame the US airports maybe weren't that smart with implementation, or the 2006 liquids plot.

It's probably fair/OK to say one partial reason for many of the measures is to demonstrate that an attack by many means would be very difficult (so encouraging terrorists to go elsewhere) so I suppose it can be said there's an element of theatre to it all, but nevertheless the processes are needed....

TBH having had to go through security every working day for many years I appreciate it can be a PITA sometimes but it's really not the Mission Impossible/unreasonable some people seem to think it is.

It always amazes me how many people fine it challenging and can't pack according to the rules.

Googling what's allowed and not allowed seems to be a task that is too difficult for many.

Not understanding the instructions repeated five times by a member of staff is another.

Even putting stuff in the tray and removing jackets seems to be a stretch that people can't prepare themselves for before they get to the tray is something. Given DS knew exactly what to do age 8 I can only conclude they have less common sense than an 8 year old.

It's not that hard. Even if you think you know the rules always check your airline and airports because these rules do change.

They don't have these rules to piss you off or inconvenience you. They have these rules to keep you safe. And if they are going to these lengths they will have a bloody good reason to do so because strict security measures are expensive to enforce.

RedToothBrush · 12/07/2026 17:18

WonderfulSmith · 12/07/2026 17:17

It doesn’t matter if the op should or shouldn’t be EBF her child or if she should or shouldn’t buy some formula.
It doesn’t matter if the staff are polite or not.
It doesn’t matter if the rules are there for a good reason, security theatre or so that the airside shops can make money selling over priced water.
She failed to research something properly and has made out that it wasn’t her fault. She has no reason to complain to anyone.

This.
In a nutshell.

Samysungy · 12/07/2026 17:28

allthewa · 12/07/2026 17:03

You can’t just leave security and go back. The rules are very clear.

That is true. However security offered for me to put my suncream in the hold and to pay for it when they said I couldn't take it as hand luggage this week. If I was told I could pay to put it in the hold at security then so should she have been offered the same. No?

I passed up on the offer as it seemed ludicrous to pay for just a suncream to go in the hold while I was only taking hand luggage. However, while she was taking other items it would've made sense.

Emilesgran · 12/07/2026 17:29

Simonjt · 12/07/2026 16:55

They rightly cannot break aviation law. OP could take an unlimited amount of liquid breast milk in her hand luggage or an unlimited amount of frozen milk in hold luggage. It isn’t so much testing being the issue, frozen solids obscure x-rays, so each bag would need to be fully liquid before going through the security scanner.

They can't detect metal through frozen milk?? How come they can detect it in a solid suitcase then?

(Because I can't imagine what weapon bigger than, say, a single razor blade, could be fully hidden in the tiny bags that are used to hold frozen breast milk.)

RVectensian · 12/07/2026 17:33

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/07/2026 11:17

Did OP suggest that? Because it's not security's job to.

I didn't say it was. I'm saying that that would be what I tried to do if it were me, and I wondered if she had tried that

Simonjt · 12/07/2026 17:34

Frozen liquids are quite different to a layer of plastic or leather. It isn’t just weapons, due to frozen liquids being problematic for scanners it could also prevent things like drugs being missed. Frozen liquid can often completely block x-ray, its actually quite impressive as its dependent on the placement of the molecules when the liquid freezes and more common in a slow freeze, which it would be in a domestic freezer.

Limeandfigs · 12/07/2026 17:57

Emilesgran · 12/07/2026 17:29

They can't detect metal through frozen milk?? How come they can detect it in a solid suitcase then?

(Because I can't imagine what weapon bigger than, say, a single razor blade, could be fully hidden in the tiny bags that are used to hold frozen breast milk.)

It's not just weapons, it's drugs as well.

Frozen liquid messes with the scanners in the way suitcases don't. It's actually surprisingly effective at blocking X-rays in the right circumstances.

kkloo · 12/07/2026 18:02

bettyrubble99 · 12/07/2026 12:32

"At Manchester Airport, breast milk is exempt from the standard 100ml liquid rule, but there are strict guidelines. You can bring up to 2,000ml per container in your hand luggage. Frozen breast milk is prohibited in carry-on bags and must be checked into your hold luggage"

Clear as day on the website.

This is what was on the link that came up for me when I googled Manchester airport and breast milk.

"Breast milk can be brought in hand luggage in containers of up to 2000ml (even if you’re travelling without your baby). You can also bring formula milk, cow’s milk, soya milk, sterilised water, baby food and cooling gel packs – but your baby must be travelling with you."

https://www.manchesterairport.co.uk/blog/posts/travel-tips/top-tips-for-travelling-with-babies-and-young-children/

Travelling with Young Children | Manchester Airport

Travelling with little ones? Have a stress-free journey through Manchester Airport with our top tips for travelling with babies and young children.

https://www.manchesterairport.co.uk/blog/posts/travel-tips/top-tips-for-travelling-with-babies-and-young-children/

Gloriia · 12/07/2026 18:28

'It isn’t so much testing being the issue, frozen solids obscure x-rays'

Really? That seems crazy in this high tech age. So a terrorist could just check explosives into the hold and as a long as wrapped in frozen packing it's obscured when xrayed?!

Shock
allthewa · 12/07/2026 18:30

Samysungy · 12/07/2026 17:28

That is true. However security offered for me to put my suncream in the hold and to pay for it when they said I couldn't take it as hand luggage this week. If I was told I could pay to put it in the hold at security then so should she have been offered the same. No?

I passed up on the offer as it seemed ludicrous to pay for just a suncream to go in the hold while I was only taking hand luggage. However, while she was taking other items it would've made sense.

Edited

It’s not security’s job to offer that.

PropertyD · 12/07/2026 18:39

There are some massively entitled people on this thread bordering on thick who seem to think that because they have a baby, have done some piss poor planning and need to ‘rush’ through security that somehow they should be waved through.

What could possibly go wrong…

Harvestmoons · 12/07/2026 18:45

Useful thread to emphasise that there are absolutely no exceptions to airport security rules in place to protect all passengers.

I do have empathy for OP who has misunderstood the guidelines, but I think getting a hard time on here because she 'explained several times' and suggests the officials can be tracked down via CCTV footage for punishment. No explanation from OP was needed, completely irrelevant, take No for an answer.

Anyway presumably baby survived the flight and they are enjoying a lovely hol with drama over

Soontobe60 · 12/07/2026 18:48

1WhiffyGrowler · 12/07/2026 10:20

Write to your local MP, Andy Burnham King of the North, the papers, the local radio, The BBC. Guarantee if you shame them you will get a proper apology and just might affect change, especially if your bringing this to light encourages other mums to talk about their poor experiences at the airport. And if you do, be sure to come back in here and post your links where other mums can see, I've already seen one other mum concur with your experience below. Really they should take a measured risk based approach rather than broad brush for everyone. Is an obvious mum carrying a baby with small bottles REALLY like to be a terrorist??! If airports and security could be bothered, they would make sure their passengers were properly cared for and could have special dispensation forms to allow them to carry breast milk. Also I thought many airports carry special scan equipment (sure I had this at Stansted) which means they don't even need to dip test liquids now (which can be a source of stress for everyone not just mums!!) so Manchester is clearly behind the times!!

Good grief, listen to yourself - “a measured risk based approach”! These are staff employed on minimum wage, having to abide by a very strict, rigid set of rules for bloody obvious reasons. They do not have the power to make their own decisions, and when it comes to the safety of 300+ passengers on an aeroplane 1000s of metres up in the air moving at 500KM and hour, then that rigid set of rules is vital.
Just imagine if Sally from Bury working on security decided to not bother checking bags as they come through the scanner, and Bob from Didsbury who flirted with Sally was able to get a knife/gun/semtex onto the flight in his bag, do you think Sally would be excused for using a ‘measured risk based approach’ by claiming that ‘Bob seemed like a nice bloke and after all he WAS from Didsbury’?

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