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Help me decide on which accommodation for DH 40th

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wejammin · 05/03/2025 18:23

DH turns 40 at the end of the May half term. We're already going to the Netherlands for a week, driving. We're back via Le Shuttle on Friday afternoon and his birthday is on the Saturday.

He's said he wants to be by the beach for his birthday. We live near Manchester so it's a long drive from Folkestone. I've said I will find us a coastal cottage for the weekend and we can drive home Sunday night.

After hours of research I've decided on Broadstairs (we're originally from Blackpool so Broadstairs seems pretty nice by comparison).

We've got 3 kids, 13, 10 and 6. Oldest is autistic and needs his own room. Other 2 happy to share. We need at least 3 bedrooms.

I've found 2 fab properties but I can't pick between and I've got decision fatigue.

The first one is right by the main beach in Broadstairs. It's a flat with 3 bedrooms. Very nicely decorated but basic amenities. No parking. Sea views. £200 per night.

The second one is 10 mins walk from a smaller (very pretty) beach and 30 mins walk from Broadstairs. It's got 4 huge bedrooms and a garden, lots of toys and beach equipment to borrow, table tennis table. Parking outside. £600 per night.

If I book the first one, I suspect we'll be out at the beach/in the town except for sleeping. I'll be able to pay for a more expensive birthday tea, although nothing very fancy as the kids don't do well with fine dining. I don't know what we'd do if it was very rainy. We'd have to pay for 3 days parking, and we'd probably have to buy buckets and spades.

If I book the second, it will be fish and chips and sandwiches, but if it rains we'll have enough to space to stay in the house. It's also a walk to the beach, but we can borrow the equipment. My kids are quite good walkers but not sure if 30 mins each way to go out for tea will elicit a bit of moaning.

I feel like I've looked at 10000 cottages and these are my favourites but I just can't decide.

WWYD?

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Madcats · 05/03/2025 18:28

Can you book just 2 nights at the £££ place? It does sound nicer and there is space for your eldest for some quiet time if the Netherlands has been a bit too busy.

wejammin · 05/03/2025 18:31

Sorry yes should have said - it's for Friday night and Saturday night only - Sunday we will need to drive the 5hr home.

It's a bit annoying because if we booked the £600 for 3 nights, it's 'only' £450 per night!

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boulevardofbrokendreamss · 05/03/2025 18:32

Parking is a fucking nightmare in broadstairs, whatever you book make sure it has parking.

The Tarter Frigate is fab for dinner.

wejammin · 05/03/2025 18:41

Well that's 2 votes for the expensive one then! We've got a big car as well (7 seater) so not the easiest to park.

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wejammin · 05/03/2025 20:20

Thanks, that one only does 7 night lets which seems quite common. There's not too many that are available for that weekend and allow 2 nights, unfortunately. Thank you for looking though 😊

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Sprig1 · 05/03/2025 20:29

I would keep looking. Maybe switch focus from Broadstairs. Neither sound great.

ladymammalade · 05/03/2025 20:45

Have a look on holiday cottages uk page on Facebook - you can tell them your dates/area/requirements and people who own a holiday home will post their links. You can often get a good deal. I got a cottage that was £700 a week on air bnb for £550 by booking direct on their own website.

wejammin · 05/03/2025 21:21

Sprig1 · 05/03/2025 20:29

I would keep looking. Maybe switch focus from Broadstairs. Neither sound great.

Aargh. Maybe. It seemed like a great choice - not too big, not too crowded, sandy rather than pebble beach, nice cafes...
I hate planning holidays!

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wejammin · 05/03/2025 21:21

Thanks @ladymammalade I'll have a look

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