It's our 20th anniversary later this year and my parents have very kindly offered to look after DCs so that DH and I can go away on our own for a couple of nights. We'd be looking at midweek, within 3 hours drive max from Sussex, somewhere with things to do (so not a remote country hotel). Really stuck to even start narrowing things down to search properly, I think we need a city or large town for restaurants, a bit of culture etc. Went to uni in Oxford so not there, not London as we used to live there but what would people recommended? We want a bit of luxury for a hotel (swimming pool/spa would be good) but not really that fussy otherwise. Any ideas?