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DH away for days, then moans at me

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DrWhosJazzyScarf · Today 06:50

Apologies if you’ve suffered any of my posts before.

DH and I have a very up and down relationship and I just can’t quite make myself leave. He’s generally very hands off with our child, and I’m exhausted of doing it all.

For the last four days of half term, he was away with his hobby (something that happens several times a year). That left me alone with our child who is just about to turn 3 and an absolute bloody nightmare.

Anyway, the morning after his return, after I’ve held the fort for four days, he complains that I didn’t box up the leftovers. ‘I’d have thought you’d have at least sorted that - I don’t want to work in a room that smells of old dinner’ (it’s a through kitchen/lounge).

I'm livid. Sent him a very firm message about feeling taken for granted. He made more effort when I got home yesterday, but then delegated bedtime to me as ‘DC is being difficult - you’ll have to do it. She just wants attention.’

I feel like I’m going mad. Wise ones of MN - am I overreacting? Am I being reasonable?

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WitchesBritches · Today 19:42

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · Today 07:03

Honestly you are a single parent now anyway

I would be quietly having initial consultation with family lawyers.

And I'd be looking to tell him to fuck off snd do it sooner rather than later.

Otherwise when you fivorfe this useless lump will also take 50% of the assets if not more

This!!

don't waste your life on this tosser!

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