Who mainly organises things to do/days out in your relationship?

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Exactly as the title....who thinks or and organises days out or things you do as a couple in your relationship?
If it's one person, does this bother you?

Me.
Sometimes I think it bothers me, but if I’m honest, my ideas are better than DHs, and I’m infinitely better at checking opening times and planning a logical itinerary.

Me. I’d hate it otherwise.

About 2/3 my DH, he’s always coming up with good stuff for us to do.

Me. Can’t remember last time my husband planned anything for us all.

Though, he had our youngest on Tuesdays while I worked and always had something planned, whereas I’d probably have a quiet day.

Definitely me 😅 but that’s more because I never really know when my husband is going to be around, so I make plans and if he’s there, he can tag along (how generous of me 😂)
With that being said, he surprised me with a spa weekend away not so long ago, all organised to the last detail. Which was nice.

I assumed it would be more of the females!! Mind this is mumsnet so probably biased feedback, but I am too and honestly sometimes I feel like it shows a lack of thought on OH part and why should I be the one to prompt all our activities! Probably abit of resentment there writing that out!

Me.

Wed do absolutely fucking nothing otherwise, go on no holidays, see nobody, just stay at home all the time.

Me or we will do nothing

Were they that boring when you were dating?