My son and his partner separated a short time ago. As she refuses to speak to him, all communication about contact with their children has gone through me. She has withdrawn then agreed to contact several times, insisting that I supervise, before pulling the plug again and making out that the children have been adversely affected despite the fact that I was there the whole time and they were fine with him.
I’ve been walking on eggshells with her for weeks, agreeing to her unreasonable demands and being very polite in the face of unnecessary rudeness on her part. I’m absolutely exhausted with it all. I’m heartbroken for my son but also disappointed that he rushed into having children with someone he barely knew.
No point to this really except somewhere to dump my feelings and lament about the unfairness on all of us.