asking for advice / help please. child (15) has been behaving badly lately. child has reported that dad has made them strip naked - they did to their underwear - and dad tried forcibly removing it from their body. there is a history of DV and coercive control between us parents and we have a 60/40 split court order in their favour. He has spent today stating that I am unstable and I am the reason that child acts how they do. dad is saying what he did was legal and their is no safeguarding concerns. child is begging to not go back there and that they feel unsafe. I have told them to go and tell the school tomorrow - as anytime I have raised concerns with the courts they have rejected them and kept the order in place. im at a loss as to what I can do about any of it to be honest. we have a barring order in place atm so not sure if it would be possible or to go back to courts or should I call social services? Leave it to the school? Dad makes me question my own decisions & tries to force me into his way of thinking when I don’t agree with things he does.