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Being sick everyday for 4 weeks

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inkgirl · 14/08/2026 01:39

As the title says. Ive been sick everyday for the last 4 weeks, usually just a little. This time it was quite a bit. Not sure why I was sick as not eaten nice lunch time. I have a doctor's appointment on the 19th for something else. Do I wait till then and talk about it adding to a list of things I have to talk to them about or call 111 in the morning? I'm not pregnant. Pregnancy tests are negative so not sure why I'm being sick. Dont usually get stomach pains with the sickness and nausea but tonight I'm in a fair bit of pain right in the centre of my stomach.

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inkgirl · 15/08/2026 15:39

NorthboundEcho · 15/08/2026 15:30

We often underestimate the willingness of people to help us. Try not to decide on other people's behalf that they wouldn't want to help. If someone reached out to you, a neighbour you don't know well, or a friend you haven't seen for ages, with "I'm having a frightening and painful medical problem and I'm struggling to advocate for myself. Would you mind coming with me when I go back to A&E?", would you say no? I doubt it. They don't need to be there all day.

They could also contact your local PALS service at the hospital for you if you asked them. So it would only be a bridge

I'd be there in a heartbeat for people

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inkgirl · 15/08/2026 15:40

TheLemonLemur · 15/08/2026 15:31

You really should request an abdominal scan please don't be fobbed off it can be really difficult. Severe vomiting can worsen hernia and cause it to become strangulated so one thing could have caused another

I'm going to have to, its all getting to much

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HundredAcreOwl · 15/08/2026 15:42

NorthboundEcho · 15/08/2026 15:30

We often underestimate the willingness of people to help us. Try not to decide on other people's behalf that they wouldn't want to help. If someone reached out to you, a neighbour you don't know well, or a friend you haven't seen for ages, with "I'm having a frightening and painful medical problem and I'm struggling to advocate for myself. Would you mind coming with me when I go back to A&E?", would you say no? I doubt it. They don't need to be there all day.

They could also contact your local PALS service at the hospital for you if you asked them. So it would only be a bridge

I second this. If the neighbours I no longer know - different lifestages - knocked and said help, I would if at all possible.

I'd find it much harder asking for help though.

StarryNight88 · 15/08/2026 15:48

Not read all comments so it might have been mentioned, you are entitled to a second opinion thanks to Martha's rule: NHS England » Martha’s Rule

NHS England » Martha’s Rule

NHS England » Martha’s Rule

https://www.england.nhs.uk/patient-safety/marthas-rule/

Orangemintcream · 15/08/2026 15:57

Don’t let them fob you off. The last time I was in A&E for a different region I witnessed a doctor actually lying to a patient that a CT scan could only be used on small areas and wasn’t suitable therefore that’s why they couldn’t have one. I knew this was a lie because I’d had one privately a few months prior of my entire abdomen.

of course the real reason is cost do not be fucked off. It could cost you your life.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 15/08/2026 16:02

Have they checked that your hernia isn't twisted/strangulated? Please ask them if you don't know.

anomymetoo · 15/08/2026 16:26

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 06:44

Nope the pain isnt in the right location for it

Hi, not sure if anyone else has said this, but appendicitis starts near the belly button before moving to the lower right side. Hope you get to the cause of this soon

BeethovenNinth · 15/08/2026 16:30

OP if no luck today is there another A and E? What region are you as maybe a MNetter could accompany you. I really think they need to investigate more

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 17:42

Orangemintcream · 15/08/2026 15:57

Don’t let them fob you off. The last time I was in A&E for a different region I witnessed a doctor actually lying to a patient that a CT scan could only be used on small areas and wasn’t suitable therefore that’s why they couldn’t have one. I knew this was a lie because I’d had one privately a few months prior of my entire abdomen.

of course the real reason is cost do not be fucked off. It could cost you your life.

Edited

Thats so bad they did that

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inkgirl · 15/08/2026 17:43

ChocolateCinderToffee · 15/08/2026 16:02

Have they checked that your hernia isn't twisted/strangulated? Please ask them if you don't know.

They havent

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inkgirl · 15/08/2026 17:43

BeethovenNinth · 15/08/2026 16:30

OP if no luck today is there another A and E? What region are you as maybe a MNetter could accompany you. I really think they need to investigate more

Im Portsmouth based

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itsgettingweird · 15/08/2026 17:52

I’m guessing I know what hospital you’re at?

Could you try the (rival!) city one?

Flowerpotprincess · 15/08/2026 17:55

OP you have my sympathy, as I’m going through something not so unsimilar myself.

Started feeling dizzy about 2 and a half weeks ago, with awful pain in my right stomach. Increasing nausea, very upset stomach. Struggling to eat and drink. I’ve been to A&E 3 times in the last week as it was just unbearable. First 2 times, all they did was blood tests and then sent me on my way. I went back to my GP for advice and was given an urgent ultrasound, which showed nothing to explain the pain. The third time I ended up there was because I was taken in an ambulance after my blood pressure dropped low at night, my DH came with me and we asked for a CT scan. This came back with no answers either unfortunately. Next step is for me to have a colonoscopy.

I really hope you get some answers soon as it is horrific feeling like this, not knowing any way to quickly resolve it.

ThelmaDinkley · 15/08/2026 17:59

OP I’d be worried about a blockage or perforation please insist on a scan. As pps have mentioned quote Martha’s Law I used this for my husband in hospital and it saved his life Good luck and hope you feel better soon x

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 18:16

itsgettingweird · 15/08/2026 17:52

I’m guessing I know what hospital you’re at?

Could you try the (rival!) city one?

Haha, might have to at this rate

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inkgirl · 15/08/2026 18:18

Flowerpotprincess · 15/08/2026 17:55

OP you have my sympathy, as I’m going through something not so unsimilar myself.

Started feeling dizzy about 2 and a half weeks ago, with awful pain in my right stomach. Increasing nausea, very upset stomach. Struggling to eat and drink. I’ve been to A&E 3 times in the last week as it was just unbearable. First 2 times, all they did was blood tests and then sent me on my way. I went back to my GP for advice and was given an urgent ultrasound, which showed nothing to explain the pain. The third time I ended up there was because I was taken in an ambulance after my blood pressure dropped low at night, my DH came with me and we asked for a CT scan. This came back with no answers either unfortunately. Next step is for me to have a colonoscopy.

I really hope you get some answers soon as it is horrific feeling like this, not knowing any way to quickly resolve it.

Hope you get some answers too

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inkgirl · 15/08/2026 20:35

Currently waiting a CT scan and have to stay in over night

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Spiffingdarling88 · 15/08/2026 20:38

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 20:35

Currently waiting a CT scan and have to stay in over night

Great news that they are looking more closely at you but dont be disappointed if you dont get answers or think its in your head. Ive had countless tests and its taken years.

I hope you do get some answers though.

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 20:40

Spiffingdarling88 · 15/08/2026 20:38

Great news that they are looking more closely at you but dont be disappointed if you dont get answers or think its in your head. Ive had countless tests and its taken years.

I hope you do get some answers though.

To be honest im just relieved they are doing something other than blood tests

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Headinthecloudsfeetontheground · 15/08/2026 20:44

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 20:35

Currently waiting a CT scan and have to stay in over night

Thank God! Chin up OP - hopefully you’ll soon have answers.

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 20:48

Headinthecloudsfeetontheground · 15/08/2026 20:44

Thank God! Chin up OP - hopefully you’ll soon have answers.

Thank you

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Gettingbysomehow · 15/08/2026 20:59

OP this is red flag central.
Strangely Im going through the same thing.
I went to the local A&E and was discharged with a flea in my ear and told off for wasting their time. This was despite having had projectile vomiting and not keeping food or fluid down for 3 days.
Well I wasn't having that. A quick look on AI told me I need immediate assessment and treatment.
I rang 111 to discuss my options, Im an ex nurse also, and they sent an ambulance for me and took me up to the big hospital that has a gastroenterology unit.
I was taken immediately for a CT scan, IV fluids and admitted for gastroscopy.
They discovered that I had a strangulated deflated gastric band that had slipped and was cutting off the blood supply to my stomach. Im going in for surgery next week to have it removed.
They took it VERY seriously.
I think you may be developing a strangulated hernia which is VERY serious.
You need to call 111 first thing in the morning and get an ambulance to the nearest hospital with a gastroenterology unit.
Take an overnight bag because you may be there for some time.

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 21:15

Gettingbysomehow · 15/08/2026 20:59

OP this is red flag central.
Strangely Im going through the same thing.
I went to the local A&E and was discharged with a flea in my ear and told off for wasting their time. This was despite having had projectile vomiting and not keeping food or fluid down for 3 days.
Well I wasn't having that. A quick look on AI told me I need immediate assessment and treatment.
I rang 111 to discuss my options, Im an ex nurse also, and they sent an ambulance for me and took me up to the big hospital that has a gastroenterology unit.
I was taken immediately for a CT scan, IV fluids and admitted for gastroscopy.
They discovered that I had a strangulated deflated gastric band that had slipped and was cutting off the blood supply to my stomach. Im going in for surgery next week to have it removed.
They took it VERY seriously.
I think you may be developing a strangulated hernia which is VERY serious.
You need to call 111 first thing in the morning and get an ambulance to the nearest hospital with a gastroenterology unit.
Take an overnight bag because you may be there for some time.

Im currently in a&e awaiting a ct scan.
Sorry to hear you went through that

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Gettingbysomehow · 15/08/2026 21:18

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 21:15

Im currently in a&e awaiting a ct scan.
Sorry to hear you went through that

So glad you are in A&E sorry I didnt read the whole thread. I was really concerned about you.

inkgirl · 15/08/2026 21:47

Gettingbysomehow · 15/08/2026 21:18

So glad you are in A&E sorry I didnt read the whole thread. I was really concerned about you.

Its been 3 days of being in and out of A&E they finally doing more then just blood tests. Just came out CT but they are keeping me in tonight.
Thank you for your concern, it dose actually mean a lot

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